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Confused about myself?
Im confused about myself. I feel sexually attracted to women and more interested with them. but when it comes to men i think "oh hes hot" but i dnt think of them sexually. I dnt know where i stand, im not into labels so would anyone know where i could stand?
I live in a hard environment where being a lesbian within my family would cause many problems and I wouldnt be accepted.
Should i just hide how i feel then?
10 Answers
- Kati.Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
No you shoulden't hide it!
I think it's because after years of thinking that about men, it's going to be like that. But you never said you looked into how they act.
I think you like girls more, thats normal. Maybe it's just the girls around.
If it seems like your family might judge you, don't think that. They're you're family, and will love you no matter whut.
- M to F crazyLv 41 decade ago
Well hopefully you can still stand on your two feet.
Ok take a self assesment of yourself. Don't be in any rush to finding out what you are. This may take years to figure yourself out. And don't bother with telling anyone what you think you are. Heck your not for sure. Explore yourself first. GGet to know you before you say anything to others. If you like being with other women. So be it. If you think some guys are cute but do not find them sexually attractive then so be it. You may see a doggy as being cute. You don't want to have sex with a dog do you? I hope not. So learn more about yourself to move forward on in your life. Start a journal to help keep track of your thoughts as you move forward. This will help with reflecting back on what you used to think.
- 1 decade ago
You should date both and find the traits that you like the most. Whatever you do, just dont hide how you feel. You do more damage to yourself if, if you're not true to yourself.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It sounds like you may be a gay man Jolly... I dunno how young you are- you have similar sex feelings at times when you are young. If you want to make love to a man more than a woman just wait until you are old enough to get your own place (18). Then you can experience whatever you desire.
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- TimmiTLv 51 decade ago
no need to let your family know. Just keep it on the down low...just like with girls...oohoo, my innuendos just keep getting better. No, but seriously, whatever you feel like doing sexually, do, don't feel put down by others.
- Anonymous5 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
You may be Bi, but your experimenting right now, dont worry its all normal and you will figure it out soon enough. Whatever it may be dont be ashamed.
- 1 decade ago
maybe u think guys are hot 'cause u wanna be like them? maybe ur transgendered? hope u can work things out :)