Women only!!! What would you do if you were a parapligic and your husband wanted sex?

I'm in a medical profession and I learned about this in college, but that doesn't seem very important here in answering this question. Common sense among adults is enough.

There's more to having sex than physical sensation below the waist. There are other sensations. Then there's love. Love has a whole lot to do with it. People who are deeply in love are to be envied.

Why do you assume that sexual feelings only occur below the waist?

You may not be able to achieve orgasm, or feel the penetration, but why eliminate the breasts, the neck, and back for sensual pleasure? He could kiss, suck, stroke those parts you can still feel with, so its not a "just for him" experience.

And, for some, the major part of sexuality occurs in the mind, the pleasure of knowing that your love one wants you, and wants you to feel pleasure too. Why would you deny yourself, and your partner that closeness?

I wouldn't want to deny myself that.

this is a really personal issue between husband and wife

if you are the one with the question I think you should find help groups, there must be a lot of women and men in this situation....

but i can't help but think you are just pondering a really peculiar question - which is the sick bit....

of course, and I would still enjoy it because not only do I enjoy pleasing him, but I can reminice what it used to feel like when we make love. If my husband was so kind as to stick by me when I was paralysed, I'de darn sure give him all the lovin he wants.

It sounds like your husband is very devoted to you, and loves you very much. Why not have sex with him or do whatever you are able to do to make him feel good? even if you don't want it, it wouldn't hurt to do it for him. Doesn't he deserve it?

i whould well i mean i think that the other party has sacrafised soooo much that the least i can do is.. well give them what they want.. i mean to be honest how many women can say that they LOVE having sex all day everyday i know that alot whould say that they dont.. but guess what we do it because we know that our men have needs... trust me sometimes i dont feel like it but i give it to him cause thats the least i can do i mean he has only given me the world ...

I still would want that. It's not just the physical aspect of sex that matters.

yes i will! i think i did it with my ex boy friend he has polio but i enjoyed it so much. go for it! your husband would be pleased. if i were you, though i wont enjoy it i will do it for my husband's sake.

yes i would.. just to please him.. and if that was not enough I would do oral on him.. of course i would have to get over the idea that it was a sick thing to do on my part.. but if i loved him enough i could do it

yes why don't , many people do