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Hey GUYS, any ADVICE/OPINION??

Is there any way I can get a guys attention without being flirtatious? I really like this guy, he is absolutely amazing. But, I don't want to be like all the other girls who flirt with him all the time. I've known him for over a year, and I thought he was interested in me, come to find out he only thinks of me as a really good friend. Is there any chance that something could happen, since he only thinks of me as a good friend?

What I don't understand is why he talks to me soooo much.... idk, it's just really confusing for a girl, that's for sure.

This must seem like a stupid question... I feel like I'm back in grade school whenever I talk to him or see him, only not.... if that makes any sense.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    The most important question is, how did you find out that that's the way he feels about you? If he told you, then that's the truth. If one of his friends or outside person told you, then it may be untrue. My advice is to just make yourself as noticed as possible (in a good way) without flirting and he might realize that he really does like you. Because there are so many girls that flirt with him, I wouldn't try it. The biggest thing is just to go with the flow and see what happens, but don't say anything to him because it might jeopardize your friendship.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you want to get his attention without being overly flirtatious, I would suggest working through the "friend" angle. ALL of my relationships have always started with us being good friends first, and things eventually lead to a relationship if there's an attraction. Be that cool chick that always hangs out with the guys. Do what he likes to do, and show him that you two can have fun without all the dating and sex stuff. Once you guys are chill, and he's comfortable with you around all the time, then turn the mack on a bit. But if you put yourself out there, and he doesn't respond, move on (maybe to one of his good friends haha) Don't do that, just be yourself and confident! Good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Flirting with him is the best way to catch his attention. That doesn't mean throwing yourself ontop of him though, some subtle flirting is much better!

    If you feel like you don't want to appear really flirty, just do it without being obvious. Drop him some subtle hints to keep him guessing ;-)

    Good luck x

  • 1 decade ago

    act more flirty but not too much - get a friend to ask him if he likes you in that kind of way.

    see what he says then try

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  • 1 decade ago

    nethings possible but he mght just be shy but give him time nd ull kno

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