Where in the bible does it say that it is better to rule in Hell than serve in Heaven?

It's "Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven", and it's in Milton's "Paradise Lost", not the Bible.

That's from Milton's "Paradise Lost", not the Bible. Acutally the correct quote is "Better to reign in hell, than serve in heav'n". Book 1, line 263.

For that matter, the whole story of Satan being a fallen angel comes from that book, and not the Bible either.

(And no, the Isiah quote about "Lucifer" has nothing to do Satan. It was only in the KJV Bible that "lucifer" became "Lucifer". The word "lucifer" itself came when St. Jerome first translated the Hebrew scriptures to Latin, and used that word for heyel, "bringer of light". The passage compares a king's lost reign to the descent of Venus in the night sky.)

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I think that's in Milton's "Paradise Lost" rather than the Bible.

That's from one of those famous Hell poems. Inferno or Paradise Lost or something. It's out of context, too.

it's from Dante, or it's from Milton's Paradise Lost

and its better to serve in heaven

No where, it's a quote from Milton's story 'Paradise Lost'

The Bible does not say that. You are deceived. That is a lie of the devil.

Achilles said something like this in the "Odyssey", and I think Lucifer did in Dante's "Inferno". It is not in the bible.

I think that's a quote from Dante's Inferno, not from the bible.