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How many times....and what's wrong with 2 or 3 times a week?

How many times a week are you and your partner intimate-and why is 2-3 times a week not enough-yes thats 2-3 times a week not month, not every other week...I mean I'm happy my partner would like to do it more-but how come 2-3 times a week isn't satisfying enough for him?

I'm really bothered by his constant comments, I mean does every one do it every day or more than once a day with kids? It's not that I mind doing it and I even do it if I don't want to, so I don't have to listen to him crab about it-but is it my problem that I don't want to do it all the time?

I have tried talking to him about it but it always ends up in a fight and him telling me I'm not trying hard enough in the bedroom-I'm not doing it enough-of course when we were dating we did it all the time but who keeps up with that with schedules, work, we have a 5 year old and just sometimes not being in the mood.

Should I take something to increase my libido? Should he just chill out? Any one else dealing with this?

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  • Dennis
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Lol i'm like that with my wife sometimes, but I'm more understanding of her sex drive and also our busy schedule.

    Some people just have a stronger mojo than others, your man happens to be one of them. He's wrong for pushing you so much, and for you to do it out of obligation is not good at all, it should never be done out of obligation.

    He's just gonna have to understand as much as he lusts for you he can't FORCE you to do it more, if you're body can't handle it or you're not in the mood NO means NO.

    There has to be compromise and he has to respect your body. I mean if my wife don't feel like doing it (which is rare), i'll just go please myself or hold it so i can savor a better orgasm when she's ready. Course trying to do myself gets her angry anyways and she ends up giving it to me so she won't miss out :p. But there are days WE just don't feel like doing it....

    You already talked, you just need to remind him about respect, and that although many people have sex alot, YOU'RE not everybody....so he needs to can it.

  • John
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Tell him to be happy with how much love you are willing to give. Most married guys don't get it once a month. Most wife's don't even show an interest in their husbands more than once a month. They would rather go without or take care of themselves when their husbands are not around.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I am 37 and my hubby is 43 and we are intimate 5-6 times out the week! That is fine with me!! I would love to do it twice a day and 5-6 a week LOL...

    But he isnt a morning person ;-) and that is when I love it!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    sorry guys but 2 or 3 times a week I'd be more then happy with that. but sometimes you'll want it more sometimes less but 2 or 3 times would be just fine

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  • 1 decade ago

    My ex-husband was the same. He always made me feel like something was wrong with me. He thought every day would be perfect. I think it was his insecurity. My new man (3years in) is perfectly matched to me and I feel great and NORMAL! It doesn't matter how much as long as you are both happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    men never get enough. I don't think there is a normal # of times a week. If he wants it more just tell him he has to work for it and you play hard to get. Then he won't even think about #s and you can get a little extra out of it too.

  • TBelle
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Can a compromise be met? He has high libido. It may not always be this high, but sounds like he really wants you, all the time.

  • Doug P
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    ok first dont poisen him like some others are suggesting haha

    its actually pretty normal even with high libido try doing other sexy things other than sex watch some movies role play or just oral...might help

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    u know what i am just surprised when people here write that they have sex for 3-4 times in a week.. because i have that much for a month.... my husband made me believe what i am writing here... and when i found out here in yahoo i am just shocked... is it real?????

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