would you be upset to if your son wont bring his girlfriend round,,?

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theyv been dating for about 6months, he goes round her house every night nearly, he says she is shy thats the reason. 
iv spoke on the phone an invited her to come round she agreed but never showed up. this is upseting an i dont want to pressure them , what should i do? keep quiet or keep asking?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Heck yeah I would be upset. She should be honored that you even want to meet her. If she really likes your son she would get over her shyness and be respectful by actually owning up to her words and meeting you. I don't even think I like her right now, and I don't even know her. Whats wrong with some girls?

sulieman · Answer

HI
you see first of all they are so young .
 - dependent the society where you are but indeed  i will up set  .
 - when she agreed for your invitation & she doesnot come   mybe she is shy or afraid .
-  keep eye on them & advice them as amother   & tell them there relation   should be in day light i mean in front of the parents 
 good luck

Premio · Answer

Listen to your gut feelings and if it raises a ( Red Flag ) you have to pressure him as he is your son. I don't buy into the idea of she being Shy, as she could end up being more experience than your son as is the case some times.

What happen if some thing happens to him at her place in him being sick and have to be taken to the hospital; it would not be nice to see her for the first time at the hospital.

Stig_316 · Answer

Just keep your nose out of it. It's up to them, the more ask and the bigger fuss you're likely to make then the less they'll want to come round

Anonymous · Answer

Keep out of it. I asked my daughters boyfriend round and he practically moved in.
It's finished now though thank god.
Leave them to it.
If you encourage it next thing you know she wlll be living with you and you will be doing her washing.

Catherine T · Answer

hi caza, dont get upset if your son wont bring his girlfriend round he proberly still diot know if shes the one yet.

Anonymous · Answer

you shouldnt be worried mos girls aare nevous to meet the mom of the boyfriend give it time it will come around! catch em on a rebound!

? · Answer

she is shy 
maybe she isnt so pretty or thinks she isnt and afraid that you might not like her
its ok dont take it personally maybe she will come one day

Pandy · Answer

yes you shond be up set if she breaks her word on coming over thin what else will she break her word on

Rich · Answer

Just let it go...he will bring her around sometime*

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