I'm going to make out with a guy thats not my bf and i've never kissed...?

Your plan doesn't seem that great. Kissing someone for the first time is awkward enough, but doing it in the water around all your friends just makes things more awkward. He might not want to kiss you for the first time around a bunch of people. (Besides, making out and treading water: not so easy, believe me I've tried it). Plus, getting close enough to him is kind of hard (especially in a lake). If he rejects your kiss the rest of the day will be awkward. Also, what you're planning to yell isn't terribly romantic, and he might not react the way you think he will. A lot of things could go wrong that could end up embarrassing you. If you really can't wait for him to make the first move, wait until the timing is right to kiss him. When you're together with him, and you're just really feeling close to him. You'll know when the time is right, you don't want to over-plan it. Also, you don't have to jump right into making out!!!!! Just go for a simple kiss! Most people don't just start making out all the time, there's a lot to be said for a small, simple kiss. It can be just as romantic, and besides, you don't want to jump in over your head!

Also, it isn't exactly slutty to kiss him first, but it isn't always best. A lot of guys would much rather make the first move, and a lot of guys don't want to date girls that are too eager. Many guys will use a girl like that, some will be decent and be honest with her, but others wont, so be careful about that!

Make sure the time is right and make sure you're not going to regret your decision.

dont plan a kiss, just do it when you feel is the best time while you are swimming....when you kiss him just kiss him on the lips softly at first a couple times and if he starts kissing back start to make out....no it wouldnt be slutty, just dont do it in front of your friends =X, that would be slutty

i would NOT yell that out in front of everyone, that would be kinda weird, do it when your both alone.....you dont even have to say anything, just do what feels natural/best

good luck =]

properly, to me, appears like you replied your individual question? you assert you're 'saving myself for marriage, even my first kiss'....Heh, so that you're kinda doing this all on your individual. similar with the courting element, i propose, you havent been on a genuine date, because you arent allowing your self to bypass on one. basically, you're your individual 'worst enemy' in this challenge. you want to purely provide up being overly shy and embarrassed and comprehend that maximum adult males likely sense an similar way and that no longer some thing so negative is going to ensue in case you purely open up somewhat and take extra administration of what you want. in case you want journey, properly, no time like the present, perfect? :) it truly is a lil unusual you're attracted to adult males the right age to be your father regardless of the indisputable fact that :O ...you'll have a lil hardship there, because the age hollow is so huge, you wont truly have many worry-free pursuits. what's it about adult males your age you dont discover eye-catching? Are all of them considered too immature or some thing? no longer all of them are, i propose, you purely favor to be affected individual and 'weed' out those extra for your liking.

ok so don't do the second part that would l\just be bad do it wen it is just u and hem coz he might not won't to kiss u and if all your friends see that well do i have t say it

good luck and tell us how it gos

okay on the first one. dont makeout right away first kiss then if yall get into then makeout.

BUT DONT EVER DO THE SECOND QUESTION THING. you dont want to make a scene espeacailly if its your first time with him. you want to be alone. if everyone is looking at you after you say tht he might get pissed off and leave. aand maybe be mad at you.

Yes it would be slutty, have a bit more respect for yourself

Someone needs to shut you're heartbreak hotel down. hahaha

Who cares what every one else thinks..