do u believe in falling in love?

i also don't believe in true love. its attraction many peoples over rate this attraction as true love . if ur talking about rising in love i think ur over reacting.

Yes, I do believe in falling in love. Miss sunaina m, I think you are totally wrong, b'coz first you have to fall in love & then you can rise in love. Without falling how can you rise? One more thing, degradation is not there in the dictionary of love & boosting comes into consideration only when you fall in love. Hope you have got it.

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Falling in love is actually a very western culture thing - it's not a global phenomenon. Some cultures believe love can only develop between people over significant time - without a "love at first sight" concept.

"Psychology of Romantic Love" by Nathaniel Branden is REALLY interesting - puts love in a whole new perspective.

Real love is dormant within us all. It is the inherent nature of the spirit soul. So, we re-awaken love and develop and cultivate that love. When there is real love, it never goes away, or never diminishes or deteriorates. Nothing can effect that love in a negative way, otherwise it is not real love it is a feeling based on some emotional stimulation. The nature of so-called love based on emotional stimulation is that, whenever the emotions no longer feel the stimulation, then the affection or so-called love turns to dislike, hatred, revenge, self pity, rejection etc etc. So that is not at all real love, that is emotion based on you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours, but if you don't scratch mines the way I like and want, then I reject you. That is selfishness not love. That is lust not love. For there to be real love, one must know and understand ones real identity. Otherwise we are not loving the true person, we are trying to love something that is not the real person, so that is misdirected and unreal. We must know the real self for there to be real love otherwise it is all false and will eventually be the cause of further dissatisfaction and distress. The soul is eternal and to love is the inherent nature of the soul. So then true love is eternal. When love is based on some bodily relationship it cannot be real love as the body is temporary and real love is eternal. So-called based on exchange of bodily or mental feelings and emotions is only actually lust. This can be seen when these feelings and emotions become frustrated. The frustrated individual often becomes violent or revengeful or goes into some trauma of self-pity. Real LOVE is between the soul and it's eternal lover, the Supreme Personality of Godhead. We are looking for perfect love, but perfect and pure love can only be there with a pure and perfect person. The Absolute Supreme All-perfect Lover ,God. You cannot have a perfect loving relationship with imperfect people. We are all imperfect in this world due to associating with the material energy and identifying with it and with our bodies as ourselves. So until we are self realised we can rest assured that whatever love we think we have will be selfishly motivated and based on lusty emotions or feelings at best. Develop self realisation in the form of developing our dormant love for the Supreme, then our love will grow little by little. Take care. Love is all you need! GOURANGA GOURANGA GOURANGA

hmmm that doesn't really mean falling like you would fall to darkness or worst degradation... but anyway if that's how you understand that, i won't contradict you..

have never thought of that... FALL - degradation, i mean used on such phrase falling in love... degradation in love..

well love is a positive feeling so maybe fall would also mean positive... "falling in love" - would that suppose to be negative?

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I don't believe in falling in love. I think that Love can never be created, it should always be present. It is for us to realize the love. We get attached to anything but never do we fall in love.

I believe in Love, rising or falling does not matter then, all matters is just being in it. No ego is left to measure or calculate if I gained something or lost everything. Its just pure love, and I become part of its formlessness.

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Vinay

In one way you are correct while in love you loose so many things including your affection for parents , to tell you I have seen people falling in most of the ways in life when love.

Yes. Falling in love and appreciating beauty is good.

So many ANGELS are walking on earth

not believe in falling in love