I need some serious advise. My mom found a gay porn magazine in my room?

Get over it and move on to something else.

of course we can help u out anyway. i know this situation has to be awkward for everyone. i think u should wait till she is alone. say did u leave that magazine on my bed? and if/when she says yes she found it under ur bed then u tell her the truth. very gently. explain to her u want to tell ur father when ur ready and would rather keep it private. tell her u love her and that u didnt want her to find out this way and ur sorry she did. please make sure u dont apologize for being gay - it isnt something u should be ashamed of. i really hope she takes this well. i wish u the best of luck!!

Well....if you are gay...you should probably talk to your parents about it anyway. It always makes a relationship LESS healthy when you are hiding something and feel as if you can't talk to someone. You should take this opportunity as a blessing because you are almost forced to talk about it. Just sit your parents down and explain your situation to them. Parents are generally understanding and love their children unconditionally.

Tell her it's a real playboy magazine with the boys still

in it !

I hope things go well on this . Your parents will need some time to adjust to reality on this one . That's what parents do ,

worry about their children .

Don't be ashamed . Don't apologize . Ask for their acceptance.

Best of luck ,

You need to have a conversation with your parents. A real conversation. You need to admit anything you know is right, and you need to own up to all your mistakes. They are your parents. They will love you and accept you no matter what, because you are their son. Just tell them.

I wouldn't say anything. Now she knows, and you know she knows. You don't have to talk about it, but you can proceed with the knowledge that she knows. For intance, when you get a boyfriend, you can say so without going through the whole "coming out" thing.

I don't know how your folks feel about homosexuality, but if it were me finding such a hideous thing (and all that it implies) under my son's bed, it would break my heart beyond recognition.

I guess you just need to face the fact that talking about it is inevitable.

How sad.

Don't say anything to her until she says something first. Then just tell the truth. Lying would do you any good in the long run.

I think you should talk to your mom. Be open and honest with her. Thats what I would want from my child. Ask her not to tell your dad until you are ready. Your dad might freak out at first but he will eventually get over it. If he doesnt, its his loss, not yours.

maybe it was meant to be--just talk to her--or do u want to go around life pretending to be someone that ur not--they might freak at first, but im sure they love u and eventually will accept it