What would you do?

You should have NEVER gotten married. You don't love your wife...if you did you would not even know this other woman existed. You don't intend on keeping your wedding vows and living up to your promises to your wife before God. Remember the forsaking all others part? Remember the love and HONOR your wife part? How are you honoring her by even considering another woman?

Do your wife a favor and have your marriage annulled. You couldn't be "deeply in love" with this other woman and even have any respect much less love for your wife. Your marriage is broken too....and you broke it!

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Any woman who is not your wife is going to seem like the perfect one for you, right? Especially if you're just newly married and are starting to get to know the ins and outs of your wife that you never knew before. It's a time when you see every single little flaw in the one you married, and that makes everyone else look sooooo much better by comparison!!

You have to keep in mind that this other woman who you think might be perfect for you has her flaws as well. If you really think that she's more the one for you than your wife is, the only fair thing to do is to let your wife know that you've possibly found someone else.

You never intend to fall in love with someone else--sometimes it just sort of happens. :-(

Wow, that's a major issue. Whatever you do, try not to cheat on your wife, who you also love and married. Once you cross that line, I think (as a woman) it really complicates things.

The question to ask is would you risk the heartbreak of your wife for a potential relationship that may or may not happen? Also, don't talk to your wife until you're sure of what you want to do. It's good to have honest communication, but in this case, what do you expect your wife to do? Support you in your new conquest or threaten a divorce?

Good luck with everything.

You need to decide whether the one you have is the one you really want. This new girl is only new for a while and the flame may or may not die. But think, how much the one you have means to you and how much she's done for you and then think of all the things the new flame means to you and then all the stuff she has done for you and compare... which love will always be there and which one won't because one mistake can lead to many more. But u need to break it off with one of them because you can't have them both. Truly you need to honor your wife but it's your decision of course.

You sound like someone who shouldn't have gotten married. I'm a newlywed; I haven't even been married 2 weeks. There's no way I could fall in love with someone else. I can imagine really liking another person, but that would only lead to friendship or nothing.

You are really confused, you really love your new wife but you're deeply in love with another woman. Why the *ell did you get married if you're deeply in love with another woman? Forget about the other woman and concentrate on being happy with your wife.

If you truly love your wife and honor your vows you stay completely away from this person. And people are different when they are going through highly emotional periods in their life than they are day to day, like newlyweds and people getting divorces. Honor the vows you only said recently.

Drink a beer and watch the game.

Get over the lust and be glad your new bride is being faithful and she derves the same.

You forget about this other person and concentrate on your new marriage that's what to do.