What's up with feelings?

Alot of times when ppl be in relationships and have problems they always tend to drift away from that person and start talking to someone else, and that someone else always have the right things to say to make u have doubts about being with the one that ur with, don't fall into it. U're married and u should try to work things out with ur hubby and lose contact from this otha person so u can have time to work with ur hubby and gain all the feelings back fully. The devil is always working and you're falling in his trap. What's good to you is not always good for you! Sit down and think about ur pros and cons, and just let the lord work it out!

You know what I have experienced the same thing, and the problem you are in love with two men for very different reasons. You know that this is not the right thing to do, however you feel compelled to be in his presence. He is always on your mind, and the problem is that you are letting your curiosity get the best of you. This person may be the total opposite from your husband,and may be the perfect balance to what you want in the perfect relationship. However, I was in love with two men at one time which was my fiance' at the time and my friend. The thing was we had good times toghether, but at the end of the day I knew my fiance' (now my husband) would give me the stability I needed in a relationship. Even after I got married I will admit I still would see him from time to time. I had to encourage him to find someone which he did. Whenver I would be in town we kicked it but I had to withdraw our sexual relationship because I had to move on with my marriage. You know that in your heart he will always have a place, and think about this is it really worth ruining what you have built with you husband. If you want to keep him as a friend then do so, but only as a friend. You sound like you really want to satisfy your curiousity if you have not done so already. I aint mad at ya..... I can not jugde you for feeling like you do! All I can say is do what you think is best. Because at the end of the day the decision will be up to you. Lastely I still have thoughts about my guy and it has been about 2 years since we have been in the same room together. It's just one of those things. Like we say down south he must have that good jug, and your husband do please you to. However, you know that he knowsssss your body and put it dooooown when you're with him. Trust me I know! You are a total different person when you see him! Just make the best decision that is right for you! Keep me posted. :)

Its normal but you need to think about th elove that you feel for your husband and that even though you feel something for this other guy, the love you have for your hubby should be far greater. You may not even realize that at the moment, so imagine what it would be like if you lost your hubby. Imagine how he would feel if he found out you are practically cheating on him. Right now you are being a bad person....make things right either by getting a divorce before it continues or stop the contact with the other guy and concentrate on your fking marriage!

I love my ex and he dumped me. I think Im going to be in your situation in the future, and I just think you've gotta remind yourself that with this boy, it didnt work. You love the memory of what you had and the boy that you dated, not the boy at present. He's not the same. Things have changed. If you went back to him there would be stuff thats unpatched, it wouldn't be the same!

I think you've got to avoid that boy and i know its hard. I get all weird when Im near places I know my ex goes to. Just realise its normal and your married now. Try to remember why you love your husband, and do special memorable things with him to keep the relationship up. Find a way to love who you're with so much that the past doesnt matter. Because really, the past is the past. Live in the present. I hope it helps

smiles.. This thing can happen to anyone but the matter is how you overcome it. Well.. Talk to your partner before make any decision because it's involved your partner's life too. Your partner might need some time stabilize everything. He/She might need your cooperation. 1st all of you shouldn't keep contact with your ex/your loved after your married. And now you can't live with your husband happily, and this could be one of reason. It's consider, you betraying you husband. Don't make mistake again. Live your life with husband, for your kids. Feeling can make you regret.