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what makes a man?

not want to have sex with his wife?

i am not fat i am not ugly and i come on to him only to have him push me away???!!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Stress

    Cheating

    Medical problems

    You need to sit him down and have an open and honest talk and find out what the problem is.

  • it's odd that a man doesnt want sex. Could be anything.

    is he bored with what you do in the bedroom? try something new, or ask him what would turn him on.

    is he under a lot of stress from work? my husand doesnt want any when he is worried sick about his job, but he snaps out of it... it could just be a phase.

    he could be cheating on you and feels bad, and doesnt want to use you... sorry but it could happen.

    maybe you two just need to take some time away to turn cell phones off and lock doors to reconnect. with so much time with eachother it is easy to loose that spark.

    bottom line, you dont know untill you ask and talk it out with him... so get to communicating.

  • 1 decade ago

    it all depends on lots of stuff: if you guys have been fighting for awhile, he might not be in the mood and he might be tired of the fighting; have you been lying or cheating on him and he knows about it? if this is the case, he might not trust you anymore; he could be stressed from work; he might have some health issues; the worst, he's cheating on you; you need to talk to him and find out what's bothering him

  • 1 decade ago

    You should definitly talk to him about it, but the only thing that comes to my mind is that he could be cheating on you and when it comes to being with you, he's too tired. I would first try to talk with him and if he's not listening ask him if he's cheating on you?

    Hope all the luck for you

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  • 1 decade ago

    U need to get the spark back in your life. Hopefully, he's not ratting around on you. Go on a cruise or something to that effect. Good Luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Stress, mid life crisis, complex issues, ego, self esteem, ED, there are lots of them, stress in the marriage, fighting, arguing, etc

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe he's depressed, tired, ill...I wouldn't jump to the conclusion of cheating, look into the other issues first...have him checked out at the doctor, sometimes there's more of a problem...my hubby was ill, now everything is better since we figured out the problem =)

  • 1 decade ago

    There could be many reasons, are you fighting a lot?? If so then he may be angry, talk to him about it only he know for sure!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Have him see a Dr. He might have a hormone problem.

  • tina
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Maybe something else is bothering him?

    Maybe he is cheating on you?

    Maybe he just feels sick

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