I Told My Best Friend i ws in love with him now what do i do?

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Ok...so 3 years ago my best friend asked me to move with him to Cally where he is stationed at in the Navy. i didnt know that he wanted more than a friendship and wasnt really ready to just pick up and move away from Family and other friends that i had. But after he left and we didnt talk for a while i realized that i was in love with him and that yes i did want to go now but i was scared what he would say. So i kept it to myself. Finally i told his sister and she told me i had to tell him because he was in love with me too and that is why he wanted me to move with him in the frist place so i finally told him and now he has a girlfried that he thinks is cool should i leave him alone till he knows what he wants to do or should i keep talking to him and just see how it goes. Oh yeah and he told me that he is still in love with me too and has alway felt that way towards me ???
Help i dont know what to do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Awwww...i think i wanna cry.  Thats so sweet.  I think you need to wait a bit.  You kind of caught him like off guard.  He probably thought you didnt like him back, so after all that time, he figured he shoud at least go out with someone.  Just give it some time, he'll come around.  Lemme know what happens!  BEST WISHES!

Natalia S · Answer

You claim to be best friends so why stop talking?  Continue to be there for him as a friend, but respect his decisions and the relationship that he's in now.  I wouldn't suggest moving to be near him just for a hope of a future.  The distance over the last 3 years can change a few things, and from friendship to relationship can also be a drastic change. 

Wait it out.  If it's meant to be, it'll happen when it's right.

i sharpen · Answer

He can't really love you and be sleeping with someone else every night. I don't buy that at ALL.

Hello??  It's been 3 years, and neither one of you has done anything to be together with the other in 3 years??  That doesn't sound like love to me.

You should be careful, and just wait.  He needs to be completely over her for you to enter into his life.  Or he is playing her, and now since you're back, you may be the next one he plays.  

Don't be naive please.  If he will leave her for you, don't you think he will leave YOU for someone else in the future?

Gloria A · Answer

Your sister was right, you have to tell him and wait.  Don't keep it to yourself.  If he told you he has a girlfriend.  I would suggest you leave him along.  I don't think you should keep talking to him.  Remember just because he told you to move with him it does not mean  he love you.  If you are the one he loves, let him make the decision.  You already did your job telling him.  ga

observer · Answer

A gf is just  a friend still haven't go into any serious part yet, but he told you he is still in love with you so what are you waiting for?
I hope your love story does not land up similar to the song "Don't cry Joni"

Anonymous · Answer

1.stop talking 2 much 2 him n like a nite go talk 2  him about it  jjust u want an answer

Drake1138 · Answer

Now that he knows how you feel, it is up to him to make the next move. Don't chase after him, you will look desperate. Also, you want him to come to you so you will know it is for real.

Alva Gomez · Answer

Aww that sucks big time! kinda reminds me of FRIENDS( Ross and RAchel).lol
i think that if he really does love you and you feel the same way then you guys will eventually end up together

Anonymous · Answer

Just be there for him, AS A FRIEND.

Unless you want to amplify a potential opprutunity for him to cheat on her.

You should have moved sooner, sorry.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him! I know his gf is going to get hurt if he leaves her for you, but it's not fair to her if he loves you more than her anyway.

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