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Searching for a long lost friend

I would like to search for a girl I knew in high school, we were casual friends and didn't keep in touch after. The 10 yr reunion is coming up and she is not on the RSVP list, and I cannot find her on face-book or any other social sites. I have located her ex boyfriend on face-book, she is not on his friends list. I am thinking of asking him about her, but not sure what I should say. Any suggestions? Any suggestions what I should say if I locate her? I know these questions get old, but I have sort of harboured a crush on her for the last 10 years, and I just want to make contact and see where it goes. I would be just content to find out she is married so I could put my feelings to rest. What does one say in this situation? I am looking for mature responses to this question.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Advertise in the local paper.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Contacting the ex boyfriend is definitely a good start. Hopefully from there you can get in touch with her and let her know that you've been wondering what she is up to, how her life is going, etc. Even if she is married you can still continue that friendship you had years ago.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her ex you lost contact and want to see her again. If you see her again, tell her everything. Sometimes, you have to let the walls down and let your feelings do the talking. Don't freak her out but be open and honest. Good luck, hun. You're doing the right thing.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Contacting the ex boyfriend is likely a nicely initiate. optimistically from there you will get in touch jointly along with her and allow her comprehend that think ofyou've have been given been brooding approximately what she is as much as, how her existence is going, etc. even if if she is married you will besides the actuality that safeguard that comradeship you had years in the previous.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Definetly ask her ex, its the closest you can get right now. Just say you've been trying to get ahold of her for a long time.

    :D Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Situations like this call for a song

    The situations are irrelevant now.

    She loves the way that I tease.

    I love the way that she breathes.

    I touched her (ohh).

    She touched my (ahhh).

    It was the craziest thing.

    I love the girls who hate to love because they're just like me.

    A certain girl she took my hand and ran it up her thigh.

    She licked her lips and pulled my hair I fall in love for a night.

    She can't behave and I'm just a slave.

    Don't worry I'll be gone when the morning comes.

    Darling what is going on?

    Honestly that never happened lying is your favorite passion.

    Leave me go where you belong,

    Higher heels and lipstick napkins dying is your latest fashion.

    The frustration it's a regular thing

    I hate the ones who love to hate because they're just like me.

    A certain girl she took her hand and put in my lap

    It's way too full she said once you have me you'll always come back.

    She can't behave and I'm just a slave,

    Don't worry I'll be gone when the morning comes.

    Darling what is going on?

    Honestly that never happened lying is your favorite passion

    Leave me go where you belong

    Higher heels and lipstick napkins dying is your latest fashion.

    I know you love to insist and all it takes is a kiss and you just

    Love to hate me.

    You know you love all the lies so don't act surprised but I just

    Love to hate you.

    I kissed your lips you pulled my hair it was the craziest thing. I

    Love the girls who love to hate. (Breathing)

    (Whoa!) Darling what is going on?

    Honestly that never happened

    Lying is your favorite passion

    Leave me go where you belong higher heels

    And lipstick napkins dying is your latest fashion

    Darling(leave me) what is going on?

    Honestly that never happened

    Lying is your favorite passion

    Leave me(darling) go where you belong higher heels

    And lipstick napkins dying is your favorite PASSION

    Source(s): Escape the Fate!!!
  • 1 decade ago

    aw. just keep looking. ask that ex of hers. what's the worst that can happen? good luck!!!!

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