HELP, QUESTION ABOUT RELATIONSHIP/LOVE SPELL! REAL ANSWERS PLEASE FROM PEOPLE WITH EXPERIENCE

Ok about him. I think the problem is that he is thinking about his future wife and what he wants in a wife and kids. When he says your to perfect for him my be it's because you have a life and it's your own life. Your a college grad, and now going into medical school. I bet you have a busy life style. He may not want someone with a schedule like yours. The other thing is that he is a man and to be a man you must be the protector and the provider. Your going to be in medical school. If he doesn't have a good career then you're going to be doing the providing. Now let's go to you. I don't know you. I don't belive in phsychic's or spell's. But I wonder what else you belive in because that would scare me too. I know he was your first love. But it depends on his true heart. Even if spells and stuff worked. would you want to forever know that you made him love you. I would think the best love is the type of love that the other one decides for him/her self. Sorry but I think you may have to let him do his own thing. And who knows if you leave him alone then he just may come back, but don't plan on it.

Okay, firstly, I know of several love spells that have worked. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ami0M... has a past answer I gave detailing some of the stories.

As for what you say, I have heard spells for reuniting can be some of the hardest to make work -- as much as anything, I think, because the issues that caused the breakup from the start tend to remain and interfere with any new progress. So really, you need to determine the real problem and work from there. But, I'll give you some starter tips to work from:

Okay, so first of all, you will want him to breakup with this current girl. WAIT FOR THIS BEFORE PROCEEDING. It will bring nothing but trouble if he's still dating someone else while you chase him.

If you want to take the magic route, there are spells for breakups, for example, if you have access to the place where the two are employed, you can sprinkle Breakup or Separation powders around the doorways of the buildings, so they will walk through it. I know a girl who did an effective breakup spell by sprinkling around her rival's car with ***** Be Gone oil, crushed black rose petals, and gravedirt.

Anyway, once he's single you can actually do love work on him. You might try a honey jar spell on him (Here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html ) perhaps with a formula such as No One But Me or Reconciliation, or a combination thereof. If you want him to stop partying, Stay at Home or Stay With Me formulae might help -- you can either sprinkle the powders where he'll walk on them again, or dress the papers in the honey jar with them, or get the incenses and burn them on a paper commanding the fellow with your desires.

I figure it's not for me to judge what you do with this knowledge, and I'm best off to just be helpful to you. Go ahead and Email me if you've got anymore questions -- I hate seeing lovers separated.

To start off, I'm not sure what your religious background is, but all that voodoo, love spell stuff is not the answer. I believe in that kind of stuff but have you actually seen any positive results? My first suggestion would be to take some time and "do you". Get yourself together and find out what it really is that you want. For him to be your first relationship, there is automatically going to be some HEAVY feelings involved. BUT don't be fooled by them. I know deep down you love him and think that he is what you want/need. Do you have any friends that you could hang with? Sometimes you need friends to help you cope in times like these. Get out and mingle a little. I'm not saying hook up or do anything you'd live to regret, but explore your options. Quit looking so hard into this one man. I have to admit he is kind of right about what the future holds. No one can predict or alter what God has in store for each of us. Men by nature are not on the same level as women. At 24 he is definitely not ready to be married and you have to give him some credit for being honest with you. A lot of men would handle there business elsewhere and still try to keep you too, not realizing the pain they cause. (Have their cake and eat it too) As for him being 'afraid', that is just an excuse. He's a man. Just try to be friends with him for now if he's that important that you need to keep him in your life. He might come around. Don't call him day and night or be the "stalker' type. Just call him every now and then to see how he's doing. Just be his friend, nothing more. Don't even speak of a relationship. Men like to be comfortable and not pressured. You may be pressuring him without realizing it. Let nature take it's course. Please believe me, there are plenty of men out there you just need to open your mind and let them in. Please STOP contacting priestesses and psychics. They are no help and you will be looking stupid with a nice dent in your wallet.

If he is threatened by what you do (your job) or what you have accomplished, then he has some issues of his own. No one can knock someone else who is helping others they way you do. You never now, you dream guy might be the person you least expect him to be. (but you'll never know if you don't let go of your past and move on!) I know this is easier said then done. You'll never get him out of your mind, but a strong woman knows how to learn from her experiences and build off of them to better herself.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

Yes to both. "Witchcraft" is very real. It's a spirituality.. a way of life. There are many belief systems that revolve around it. Spells work, just as prayers do, except it requires a bit more involvement. I've been brought up with the influences of witchcraft or the occult/ w/e you want to call it, and have had nothing but success at my spells. It's all positive/ negative thinking depending on the intent.

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HELP, QUESTION ABOUT RELATIONSHIP/LOVE SPELL! REAL ANSWERS PLEASE FROM PEOPLE WITH EXPERIENCE

So, this is how it all happened. I am a 24 year old African American female. I am a recent college graduate and planning to begin medical school in the fall of 2009. I recieved the governors award for national service and volunteerrism, I volunteer with my local community organization, recieved an...

Would you want to spend the rest of your life with some one who didn't love you but was bound to you through a spell? Did you ever read the story the Monkey's Paw? Be careful what you wish for you just might get it.

Basically the guy wanted to break up but men , this is a generalization, are not good at breaking up so they try to turn it around and blame it on you.

There are hundreds, thousands, even millions of men who would love to go out with you. Save your money for a new outfit and move on.

Well, I don't think you need a love spell and I am not going to give you one. There goes more into a love spell then just getting the guy you think you love, it violates the free will of the person who you cast it on.

My guess he is just scared of commitment. You didn't have to say anything about marriage or kids; he could have just thought it on his own and became worried, needed to escape.

As well, you said he was your first and only boyfriend and I know that a lot of people, especially high schoolers, think their first boyfriend or girlfriend is the person they are meant to spend the rest of their lives with, but maybe they aren’t.

I was told by a friend of mine the first boyfriend/girlfriend is the hardest oen to get over, because it is new to the person.Just clear your head.Don't think about him and slowly you will get over it.

Been there, STAY AWAY FORM LOVE SPELLS. I DID THEM AND IT ALWAYS CAME OUT THE LOVE I DID WANT BUT NOT WHAT I NEED! It mess up your mind and the other person mind and the out come is that it falls apart badly! I was end up with a miscarry and now we hate each other! The thing about magic is that you try not to use it to much and just asks the gods for guideance

I hate to break this to you. You may love him, but he is playing you. He considers you a fall back person who he can always go to and get what he wants. You may love him, he doesn't love you, he is using you, even after he is gone, he is counting on you to be there when he wants you. I will not insult your intelligence, but try to look at the situation from a 3rd party perspective. He wants to go and mess around, you are focused and driven in your career and your life. He left you, and that is his foolish folly. He may come back to you, and if you let him back in, he is just going to walk on you again (I say again, because he is doing it now.)

I suggest for now, have fun yourself. Live your life, go out with your friends. Don't let him run your life, even though you love him. I say this, because it was once my folly, and it cost me dearly.

Hmmm seems to me the guy is giving you a false excuse for why he left you in the first place...have you taken into consideration that he made up you being too perfect for him to hide the real reason from you...possibly to not hurt your feelings.

If you know about KARMA and THREE FOLD LAW then why would you do it then?