Why do women love unemployed,abusive,drug addicted,boozing,cheating men

i so agree women love trouble makers

triumph good answer on the other ?

guys any guy that is acting nice to a girl i.e buying her flower chocalets or anything else she desires is going to be dumped when he will not have anymore cash$$

on the other hand abuse,hitting,yelling not buying **** to a girl will get her to marry u faster

meggie i wouldn't say that most women(typo)menare cheaters they smile kiss etc. once a guy is out the door and off to work for the women its sex with the neighbors. I don't think all men are abusers esp now women have more rights meaning. A guy sleeps with a girl "oh honey lets have sex" ok fall asleep next morning cops over the bed oh he raped me. so I wouldnt say all guys abuse only girls make rules of there own nowdays just for cash$$

no prob triumph i actually went through this once when my girlfriend was acting like this i.e using me right then i knew i don't have to be so nice so kinda broke up. I changed in a way don't have gf but have friends who are girls and i tell ya this "A little bit meaner technique works bad" not to the point of beating or abuse or crap like that i would never do that. But a little bit meaner and girls run after u lol. Advice for girls don't fall for an abusive realtionship once u get married its a long way back and impossible to get divorced and get to ur previous life.

Franco i wouldn't say girls are stupid unless ur gay cause men need girls lol. but in the sense that they love abusers thats stupid

Ok, If they wanted rich men they why they dating unenployed? If they wanted nice men then why would they be with an abusive one? And if they cheated marrage is forever and we all make mistakes. Like our parents have forgiven use growing up so does some who become one.

Boo boo is the cry of a women who has been played with in the head. The mans charm will atrract and pull those gulable in. Wich may be ones who starve for love and affection. After a couple of years the man changes usally when childrean come our marrage. They battle with thoughts of there life is over boring our no longer have exciment. so as the laddys take care of the home the man finds away to exscape responsibailty to come home and works latter our finds hobbys. Cheaters are like car salesmen they dont do it tell they know they have the power to control how you feel . If the women wants somthing bad enough she tends to be willing in doing what it takes. If there lucky they get out ! If they stay damage has already become grounds of abuse emotionaly, meantaily, or phsicaily! Such abuse happenes through years of being happyly married first. Its a silent crime that most can not and will not ever understand. so as for your comment boo boo its not like she new in enough time to go its the abusier is that crazy to plot his possistion to gain control

Absolutely not. It completely depends on the person. I would love a woman with all my heart. I think gender has very little if no relevance to love. It's just that men usually bottle up their emotions inside because they think expressing their feelings is a sign of weakness. We have just as much feelings as women. Men are aren't always driven by lust it's a false stereotype. Also Nita is so right. I couldn't have said it better myself. People think men only love with their penis when that is such a horrible generalization. Many women think with their vaginas and break men's hearts who wanted a real relationship instead of just sex.

The most significant reason would be an early childhood programing to depend on or want such nasty men (or women) which really comes down to low/bad self esteem and self respect.

Women (and men) who are raised with self appreciation and high/good self esteem are not attracted to or by such low lifes where as those raised by low lifes will be drawn to or attract folks like the low lifes that brought them up - UNLESS

something profound happens to change their low life orientation such as a relationship with someone who has good self esteem.

It usually takes a lot of work for a low-lifer to become a high-lifer by working with self esteem training or whatever will change their low life conditioning in early childhood.

Yes it is sad and pathetic. I think it's mostly women with low self esteem and are afraid of being alone and would rather take a dead beat, abusive bum than be alone in this world. Also a lot of fatties and minorities that grew up seeing this in their own families and that's all they know.

Because they think that they can change him and make him a better person. As this fails, they have to stay with him and try something else. They don't know when to quit, when they should be aware that this guy is not improving any.

Because they don't know any better and 9 times out of 10 would not know a nice guy or even how to treat him if they did... Kind of hard to respect some one when they have no respect for themselves

It's simple, women like to have a positive impact on their relationships. They do this by trying to fix their men, so the more problems the guy has the more chances she has to fix him and the greater chance that she can have a positive impact on their relationship. So the more problems the better in a woman's eyes.

With a guy that is perfect and normal there is nothing to fix and they will often get bored very fast.

What women are you talking about, I always thought women like rich, nice, and hott men.

low self esteem