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Ok, today for startes has been crappy. My best freind who is like my sister got into this huge fight. It all started when she asked me mto come down and i did after i ate dinner, well she was busy putting up a tent so i said hi when she said hi to me and kept walking. Than I hung out with her little brother who is like my brother. ANd she stayed across the street ignoring me afterall she saw me sitting there. She never said anything to me at all. When she came over to eat. Her brohter adn I hung out and finally her brohter and i wanted to get this stargihed out and thats when the fight happend. I told her tha she is always ignoring me, which she is. Its all about her bf who broke up with her once. She said no i dont and I told her yes you do. I told her your always talking to Josh, when I'm around I dont talk to Scott when your around and her dad agreed. He said that i have always been there for her and that she's throwing a great friendship away. Jay and I went outside and talked before i left since i was upset. We haven't talked since earlyer tongith when we had this fight. 
What do I do? Is this my fault I feel like it is. I feel like I acted like a *****. Do I apolgize even thought I'm always the one to. I'm so confused, hurt. What do i do?

Marki · Accepted Answer

Hey there...i have had similiar argument with my best friend...who is also veyr much like sister to me. you what..maybe today or tomorrow...just make up ur mind..u said hse is like a sister to u...best frineds often do fight...he he.... but the best part is patching up! just go up to her go to visit her or when u emet her just hold her hand and say.u dont want some stupid hting to come between ur relationship since url ar ebest friends...u ask her" everyting is okay now right? We are frineds forever ?" and smle at her. you can say sorry. do it first! Everytihg will be allright okay! my best friends and i went quiet on each other after a big fight in school long time ago...we didnt speal for abt 3 weeks but we patched up things...coz we are best buddies and nothing can destroy our friendship! its been a long 14 yrs and we are still best friends for life! :) friendship is a very important hting! Hold on to it. when u guys are hanging out try to talk abt thing related to understanding... just explain to her wut u like and wut u dont..in that way she wil talk to u abt her x bf...tell u how she feels...maybe she is still getting over it..so all that is bothering her..just be patient! ;o) tc

schmalexis. · Answer

I don't think you should apologize.
But if she wanted you over, than she would wanna talk to you.
Real friends wouldn't ignore each other.
And SHE'S the one that's acting like the btcih.

I'm just like you.
I aplogize even when I did nothing, and I'm starting not to do that.
Give her a few more days-week and see if she comes around.
If not, ditch her.
I know it's easier said than done, but gather up all yor strenghth and think of what you're gonna say to her, instead of just going up to her and saying "YOU'RE A BCITH, DON'T TALK TO ME AGAIN!"


And if you do ditch her, say it in person, not over MySpace, text, etc.

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