30 year old husband dating barley 17 year old girl?

I would turn him into the police for dating a minor.

Then I would cut him off at the balls legally, taking everything.

o man this is some complicated stuff your involved in. but i'll be honest with you a man who is 30 years old has an interest in minors is not normal. and come on you are 17, even if you went out and experienced as much as you could within those 17 years of life how much could you really know about the real world, and about relationships to be able to absolutely say beyond a shadow of a doubt that you love this guy? even people who are twice your age have trouble telling whether or not they love someone look around at the relationships page on yahoo answers. you saying that you are sure this is love tells me that you are young and inexperienced. and even the emotional stuff and moral stuff put aside think about when you are 30, he is going to be 43, and when you are 43 hes going to be 56 and so on. and even before then children who are conceived with a father 35+ have a significantly higher chance of developing schizophrenia, and no one should have to go through that kind of pain. and by the time he reaches the age where that becomes a risk you will only be 22!! be smart and do what is best for you here...

Just thank your lucky stars he is out of your life. I consider this person a pedophile. That is so disgusting. You need to focus on bettering yourself and showing him you are better off without him in your life. Build you career up. Be the best Mommy to your children. Do things for yourself. Get your mind off of him he isn't worth it. My first husband left me when I was 27 and he was 30. He left me for a 42 year old woman which was very devastating. That was 13 years ago. I bettered myself but he remained the same. He cheated countless of times with different women. He is still doing the same thing by being a painter and living paycheck to paycheck. He isn't any happier. I on the other hand did much better. I was a housewife that didn't know how to drive. I now work at an office I learned how to drive (it has been 11 years now lol). I got married again to a way better husband. If I can do it you can do it.

http://ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm

go to this site. Look up your state! Then if the age of consent is less then 17 or 16 call the cops! Some states are 16 some are 18. And then after that call a layer and get your house back.

Get a lawyer and drag the cradle robber into the mud . Take the bastard for everything he is worth . Make sure your lawyer gets a certified detective to get proof of his cradle robbery,s . I,m sure the courts will be on your side . Going through a lawyer you have to tell the lawyer what you want because he will not offer advise they will only do what you ask of them and no more but charge you the same so have your strategy laid out before obtaining one and tell him or her what you expect from there services . Again they will not offer any advice other then what you are asking for . You tell them what you want don,t let them tell you what you can have its your money paying for there services and like anyone they try to get out of as much work as they can so it is very important to know how to deal with lawyers

Have you seen a lawyer???? If not, get to one immediately. They will tell you if you can get maintenance (alimony) and how much child support. Remember, living well is the best revenge. Take everything you can, and he won't be able to keep the 17 year-old twit.

Have you tried calling child protective services? They may be interested in a 30 year-old screwing a minor.

I don't think it's legal. I'm sorry, what a piece of crap! From this point on I will only hire UGLY 17 year old girls to watch my kids! Who would even think that something like that would happen. Clearly you are better off. If that is your real pic then you will be fine, you are pretty.

Tell him that you hope he has fun at the prom. What a J@ck@ss!!

Wow, what an unfortunate situation you are in. Your husband is obviously pretty screwed up in many ways.

This leaves a ton of responsibility on your shoulders. It will be tough, but you have to do everything you can to maintain a sense of normalcy in your children's lives. His actions have put them at high risk for all sorts of problems. In spite of all the financial pressures you will probably have you also need to take care of yourself as well.

I would lean hard on family, friends, and get plugged in to a good family oriented church.

Are you in the States? You most certainly CAN report him and you can also gain full custody of your children as well. He will still have to pay support to you and the kids. Sometimes just the mere mention that you might follow thru on exposing him, may help as leverage in court, as he will surely NOT want to lose his business over this underage activity!.

what?? he cant' just kick you and your kids out of the house-- why did you leave? you better get a good lawyer cause he is the only one that should not have keyes to your home. granted i do not know all the details, and you may have caused some of the problems, but your children come first.. they should not have to leave their home for some 17 girl to take over..

What a horrible situation for you..I'm so sorry ((HUGS))

I would take the high road as in not trying to seek revenge, but you do need to protect yourself and your children legally. Unless you had a pre-nup stating otherwise, you are entitled to 50% of the assets, as well as child support. I strongly suggest contacting a lawyer if you haven't already.