Reconciliation when marriage is broken?

If you truly want to fix this - do it........seek counseling..........go with her, alone...whatever it takes. Get help. It make be a long road back but oh so worth it. Just cause somethings broken doesn't mean you throw it away!

Analyze your self and ask your self questions, why did you treat her that way? If you feel like you were the problem seek professional help. Express your apology to her, so she knows you regret what you caused her. If the reason you treated her bad was her fault then there's no point on going back because you will end up treating her the same way. Does she wants to go back and change if she has to, or if you were the problem make sure she knows you are ready to change. Good luck, seek Gods help he always makes it better.

Counseling for yourself to figure out why you felt the need to treat your wife badly.

Couples/marriage counseling to learn effective communication skills, anger management and anything else you have issues with...IF she's willing to go through it with you.

If not, at least get it for yourself so you don't repeat bad behavior whether you stay together or not.

Leave her be and seek treatment for yourself. You may even tell her that you are going to get help and maybe she will want to try again after that. But unless you change, all you can do is hurt her some more.

Apologize to her and admit how wrong you were to treat her so badly. That is about all you can do.

Have you tried counseling?

let her decide now.

give her some time and space so that she can recollect herself