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What would you do in this situation?
Well I know this girl from my old house, we never really kept contact until one day she msged me on aim about a year ago, we had little talks here and there.
And im pretty sure she flirted with me a couple times but at the time i was like wtf are you talking about hahahaha xD.
But around April we started talking alot, ive talked to her some days till 5 am lol. Then i went to a communion and one of her friends told me she liked me. That was in May i think. But now the our conversions are getting shorter and shorter since there's less to talk about. Now i consider her as a really good friend, but she lives around 30 miles from me now, and i kind of have no way to get there. I cant get this girl out of my mind sometimes i lay awake in bed thinking about her, i plan to ask her out when she comes here to visit my twin sister because i think asking someone out over the phone or aim is kind of lame
and she keeps saying shes going to come over but im either somewhere out of town or she doesn't have a ride.
and i feel like im running out of time, because its been a while already.
Btw im pretty good friends with her alrdy, we almost talk everyday its just that i dont have ride to her house. But i would ride my bike all the way to her house LOL. xD
can someone tell me what to do..
Sorry for the long story lol.
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'm a male in my late teens, approaching 20, and this sounds like a "sink or swim" situation. Because you can choose either to keep your best friend status or risk it to tell her how you really feel.
This is what i would do. Have your sister get her to come here on a day where you are home or at least not out of town. Before that make sure you have a REALLY good topic to talk to her about and save it (like concert tickets or get the gang together to watch a movie she really wanted to watch or something about her favorite book, etc.). I think this is the most important step because this is your lifeline. When you're in a good position to ask her out, do so. If she says yes then congratulations. If no, this is where that REALLY good topic comes in. You can swiftly change the topic and still keep your relationship with her instead being awkward forever. Silence and hesitation is usually a bad sign but i'm sure you have enough common sense to tell when it's good or bad
Depending on how good your relationship is with your sister, you can have her hide behind a wall so she could come in when it starts to get ugly. I'm sure there's other ways to do it, but this is what i would do. Good luck
- Anonymous1 decade ago
There's not much you can do without a car. Once you two do finally get together and you ask her out, then a new set of problems arise. Then how do you see each other? It's going to be problem after problem with this relationship. As much as you may want it to work, it's not going to. Young peoples long distance relationships never last. I would tell her your feelings but stick to friends for now. Once maybe one of you gets a car or something then see where it leads.
- 1 decade ago
Don't apologize! After all, it's better to have details than nothing to go by.
Is there somewhere in 'the middle' where you two can meet up? What about asking a parent to drive you somewhere public where she lives--a restaurant or museum? It would feel less awkward than driving to her house, but at the same time you can meet up in person. Thirty miles is way too long to ride on your bike!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
haha!! it is a long story lol!! but anyway tell you sister this and tell her to call her and ask her to come over one day then the sameday your sister will go into town with another friend and shell get back later but the girl gets there earlier and then you have your time alone too tell her how you feel and see if things would work!! hope this helpsxx e-mail me if you dont get what im saying moomin_is@hotmail.co.uk :P
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- 1 decade ago
Well if you think that your running out of time then start talking about a relationship over the phone or online and that'll blossum in to you asking her out in person!
- 1 decade ago
well there must be some way to get there. or decide upon a central place to meet. See, where there is a will, there is a way!! go get her boy!!