A past memory that I need answers to please tell me what do you think?

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Its this guy from my past that I was in and out of sexual relations with. I had a man at the time and he knew it. I felt that I had good reasons to cheat on my man with this guy from my past. I could tell as we kept messing that he was getting aggravated at the fact that I have a man at home. Well, six years later, I moved away meet someone else and married, learned from my mistakes in the past and so on. The only thing is this person who I was messing with in the beginning with my ex boyfriend caught wind that I was in town. He immediately went through my sources to get in contact with me again even gave me his number. Now I am confused. He became upset when we was messing and I have a man so why do he want to enter in the same situation with me again not to mention this time I am married. I would like to believe in make believe that this person might has feelings for me. Don't worry I haven't called the guy but, I just wonder. What do u think.

Just to feel you in I have always had a crush on the guy that I cheated on my boyfriend with. We grew up together. The only reason why I cheated on my ex boyfriend with this guy because this guy put me through alot of hard ache and pain, I was young, he was getting his well before I started getting mine. Even though two wrongs don't make a right.

esbm_alf · Accepted Answer

I'm going to be short and sweet here...don't cheat, its wrong and you know it!

hotdog · Answer

You said, and I quote:
"Well, six years later, I moved away meet someone else and married, learned from my mistakes in the past and so on."

If that's true, and you learned from your mistakes, and went on to marry - then there should not be any confusion here.

Please do not let yourself fall into this guy's trap. He is coming around because he does not have anything going on in his own life. He must believe you are an easy, vulnerable target. 

And, please consider how your husband would feel if he knew you had the phone number of this guy. You'd be smart to burn it, flush it, whatever.. just eliminate it and all thoughts of this guy from your life.

You've moved forward. Don't let him trick you and send you spiraling backwards.

Julie C · Answer

It's just best to forget the past and look towards the future with your husband.  You're happily married now, and you said you learned from your past.  So the best thing to do is let go of the past.  Live for today and look towards a great future.  You went through hell to get where you are now, don't go back to it.  God Bless.

Anonymous · Answer

Hi,
The best thing to do is stay with your husband. Do you love your husband more than anyone? If you do, stay with him. Don't cheat on your husband.
Good luck,
Hope this has helped.

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A past memory that I need answers to please tell me what do you think?

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