Married man, text messaging 4 single/married women to the tune of 900 messages month,Is it an affair of heart?

Absolutely! My wife was texting the guy next door to the tune of thousands a month while I was gone to Iraq. They started in the morning and continued many days until 2 am but they are just friends....whatever. I am so done.

I am a married man and I do not do that, however, I have a wife that does not love me etc.... I do not see anything wrong with this unless the emotional affair becomes too much too handle. If he is doing it because he does not love her anymore then.... He is wrong.

All depends what the situation is and whether that is something that him and his wife accept in their marriage. If his wife doesn't even know about it then yes I would say it is an affair. If she knows about it and she accepts it then it just may be their way.

Yes, I probably would. Unless more than 200 texts/woman is necessary for business....

he is MAN, but why just stopping at text, i am sure he must have got laid with women as well, ofcourse he won't let you come to know about it. we men are quite smart for you in that sense.

I guess it depends on the situation...? But are you on here looking for justification to what you are doing? I'm sure that you have a mind that is well aware for what you are doing

NO, it's an affair of the CROTCH. He's looking to get laid.

yes and they are the hardest to get over... what is he possibly talking to them about that he can't talk to his wife about?!

100% absolutely...sounds like he is full of himself too!!

OK for him...not OK for you? DOUBLE STANDARD!