Would you wear this in your hair with dark jeans and a black solid shirt?? ?

I think it's ugly no matter what you wear it with. However, I'd wear flowers in another color with a dress to go dancing, & that style does sort of suggest flamingo or by a stretch some sort of costume from the 1800's. I wouldn't wear that style & size of flowers in the hair with jeans.

I might wear some kind of cool hat, maybe felt, with the dark jeans & shirt you described. I'd try on a bunch of hats to see if any were flattering. The only way I'd wear a flower with the jeans & shirt would be if it were a small rose attached to a choker-style necklace. I'd go where there was a choice between black & rose-colored & where it was possible to try them on with the outfit. It could be a jaunty look with hat, choker, & boots that aren't too high-heeled. One of those shorty coats, either wide-bottomed or more close to the body, depending on what you like, could look sharp, & each piece would be versatile enough to go with other things.

Nope.. that actually startled me. I thought it was a spider..Please don't put that in your hair. There are far more prettier things out there than that.. Just get a nice pin up barrett and change the shirt to something light.. unless you want to be all dark? mabye a dark jeans jacket over the light top

ONE WORD......NEVER