i need help im 13 and i had sex but i didn't want to i haven't got my period but when i wipe there is blood?

Please go to someone you can trust. If you can't go to your parents, an older, reliable friend or relative will be fine, as long as you see an adult. An aunty or a big sister perhaps? First of all, you will need to go to the doctor have a pregnancy test. You will also need to have some other bloodwork done to see if you have caught any STD's. This is extremely important! then you will need to go to the police and tell them you have been raped. Make a statement. As hard as it may be, you need to make sure this person does not rape anyone else so please do the right thing, if not for yourself, for all the other girls out there. Once you have spoken to a doctor and th police, I would recommend you seek some councelling. You should be able to see someone at your local womans crisis centre. It will be in the phone book under community. Make sure you take the first step and see a trusted adult straight away. Good luck x

Ok first of all, if you say you didnt want to have sex, it sounds to me like you were raped.. You need to talk to someone you trust IMMEDIATELY. Maybe a parent, a trusted friend, older sister, or even a school counselor. And then you need to speak to the police, because noone deserves to be raped! But if you were not raped, the only thing you can do now is to go get tested. You might be pregnant or you might not.. However you might have an STD and that could cause irritation, blood, etc etc so you need to get checked out asap. You're 13 years old so if you dont feel comfortable talking to your parents about this situation or going to your usual doctor you can go to a Planned Parenthood in your area. Go to www.PlannedParenthood.org to find one thats near you. They keep everything confidential and they are very supportive and helpful. And I do believe everything there is free of charge. But remember, whatever you do, do it fast. Good Luck!

ok well if you 100% didn't have sex dont panic. because you got them so young, sometimes they will stop all together for a while a start back up again, like for a few months or a year, your body might be adjusting to other body/hormone changes, although this doesn't happen to everyone it's totally normal. give it another week then go see your doctor (yes i know it's embarrasing, but there other things that will be even more embarrasing, like pap smears when you get older. and keep wearing tampons or pads incase your period comes back unexpected, that would be embarrasing at school)

You didn't want to have sex? Then first of all thats rape, and I would tell someone.

Second of all, kids (and yes you are still a kid) need to stop having sex so young when they obviously don't know anything about it!

Did he use protection? If not you could be pregnant. Like I said, do something smart and tell your parents! They may get upset but if you are pregnant whats done is done and there isn't much they can do about it! Be safe then sorry!

I think that you need to tell someone, as others have said. Find an adult that you can talk to and explain what happened and how you are feeling so they can get you the care you need.

Whatever the cause of the bleeding it needs sorting and your health is important. As a parent myself I would far rather my child told me something like this than kept it to themselves.

Lots of luck.

This is why 13 year old's should not be having sex! If your old enough for sex then your old enough to talk to mom and dad! Also get educated about pregnancy and std's! That is your parents responsibility though so I won't be giving you the sites to look at since your still a baby! Grow up and go talk to mom!

wow strange you are too young but I won't judge because this also happened to me. When i had sex for the first time when i was 16 by the way i was getting my period though..anyways i had spotting for about three days... i was told that you bleed when your hymen is broken or ruptured and this is common occurence when you lose your virginity.. if you want to look it up more look up hymen because it sound like that is what has happened.

If you had sex but you didn't want to then I'm assuming someone forced you into it? If this is the case then you need to tell a trusted adult ASAP and get yourself seen by a doctor. Good luck hun

you need to talk to some one now ..you need to talk about being forced to have sex ,you need protection from it happening again ...also you need some one to check you out ,(a doctor) because the bleeding sounds like you may have been hurt inside ...

you are 13 and no nothing about baby's but yet you are out making them talk to your parents