Husband registered for ashleymadison.com, what to do? He says he doesn't remember, lol...?

He's straying....

Please be very careful and do not tolerate a cheater.

Good luck.

ADD* You have done nothing wrong. People look for "excuses" to cheat and too many men like to pull out the "I'm deprived" card to make you feel bad. You are working hard to improve your family's future by going to night school - not to mention taking care of kids and cleaning. He should be ashamed of himself and start appreciating you. If he proves that he cannot do so, use your knowledge power and break free. You deserve better. And he needs to quit being a coward.

NO question here...if the profile is filled out, then he had to do it. So...it could be just curiosity on his part, AND he might be afraid to be truthfull about it, which says something about the state of your relationship, OR...at the very least, he is lying to you. Not a good thing to happen in a marriage. Wether he is actually interested in the websites offerings or not, he is doing something that worries you and then lying about it. I would confront him, calmly, and try to get to the truth. It may be a lot deeper then you are prepared for, but truth and honesty are the only way a marriage can succeed. If it is not there, find out now.

you know i had that same problem with my man also, except it was with latinas.com or something like that, complete filled profile and everything... and to think i moved from one state to another just to be with him, i confronted him ofcourse the same usual lines " i dont remember" or "why would i do that, i love you" until i lied that 400.00 dollars was taken from "my" bank account because he wanted to create a profile so he can cheat on me, (they never did, but he never did that stupid thing again also)ofcourse i gave him another chance, but i do not trust him at all...

you can always forgive a person for doing you wrong but you'll never forget what's been done...

all the best... and i do hope everything works out for you!

I have been married almost a year and have heard about that site - unfortunately, it is well advertised. The site lets you pay a $249 fee and guarantees that you will find someone to cheat with, or you get your money back.

As a guy, I know the kinds of temptations we often have and face however, this does not excuse this kind of behavior.

When he married you, he made a vow to stick with you forever. He needs to be accountable to you for websites he visits and people he talks to online. He does not need to be visiting sites for people who cheat on their spouses.

I would sit down and tell him exactly how it makes you feel - do not let him make excuses. It could be that he is suffering from a porn addiction or some other kind of sexual addiction... do not be afraid to bring these topics up for speculation - remember, he's the one thinking about cheating on you.

An easy way to remedy this situation would be to install software on the computer that sends you a daily email of everything he looks at online... this software is one that many men use to keep them from falling into the trap of pornography.

you have a really hard realization to face. he obviously DID do this and now you are going to have to deal with it. it's not a matter of did he or did he not..he did..so now what? i say you speak with him about getting counseling with you. there are clearly some deeper issues here. if he doesn't agree to counseling, i suggest that you seek it for yourself to determine whether or not you want to be in this relationship. these are not easy choices, but if you don't confront the issues, they WILL get worse.

Your question would not upload up? the only way he would not undergo in concepts is that if he replaced into taking drugs. It would not rely to me despite the fact that he accomplished - a guy that remains out till the early hours would not be allowed lower back in my abode?

Well now you know what he was doing when you were in school at night, for now I would quit school, you're place is obviously at home, or kick him out. Filled out or not that is a wake up call that he is LONELY at night. So you 'gained knowledge' after all.

Ask him if he wouldn't mind you signing up for adult friend finders to get a boyfriend. If he freaks then lay it on about ashley madison.

This might get the subject out there.

You already know the answer...

If he has it in his email, he did create the website.

The question YOU have to ask YOURSELF is whether you are willing to put up with that type of behavior.

Also, has he always lied to you like this?

That sucks. I can't even believe they air commercials for that site. Anyway he "doesn't remember" registering? People say the stupidest sh!t sometimes. He was looking & you know it.