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should i tell my really good friend i have a crush on her?

k im 15 and ive been good friends with this person for a looong time and i am just comfused if i should tell her

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i know exactly how you feel... i went through the same thing just last month. except that i am older than you. i fyou and this girl are relatively the same age, and she isnt seeing anyone currently, then by all means tell her how you feel about her... maybe suggest going to a movie ( if you dont already)

    it would be slightly different if you were the same sex, so if thats the case i need more info.

    talk to her and say something to the effect of- i know we've been friends for a while now, and i wanted to let you know that i have feelings for you.... etc

    Source(s): counsellor and psych minor
  • 1 decade ago

    Live life to it's fullest. I know it's hard, there is a chance of being rejected. But do you really want to wait and wonder, "what if?" You guys could be great, and if not, at least you'll know!

    Good Luck (and no regrets)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell her. Nothing worse than keeping feelings locked up. You never know, she may feel the same way :) - If she doesnt im sure she wont be offended and you can still be friends...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    only if you think that there is a chance of her liking you back. But make sure she knows that if things don't work out you don't want it to be weird or loose your friendship

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  • 1 decade ago

    If we don't take chances in life, then what's the point! Do it. You wont spend the rest of your life with her, and if you do, at least you know it was at this point you had the courage to do it.

  • 1 decade ago

    You could tell her you know. Well since you and her have been together for a long time you said. Who knows, maybe she likes you too. Tell her. :)

  • MEGAMI
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    you'll never know unless you try

    this old saying has helped me a bunch

    hope for the best but plan for the worst

  • 1 decade ago

    i think you should cause you guy are friends maybe its time to take the next step in you guys relationship

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    life is too short, don't think if you should told her or not.

    So my answer is yes go and told her

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