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y does a girl i ask out always say she has a boyfriend?

After i ask a girl they always say they have a boyfriend but the don't this gets me feeling like im invisible and that im not wanted y ?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You've got to be more selective with the women you ask out.

    Sometimes you can never know, but often you can. You have to be more observant. Anyway, it's best to know the girl a little before you ask them out. Usually it's the case that as you get to know someone, the facts come out.

    Personally I think you're asking way too fast.

    I would find it really weird if some girl asked me out. I have a girlfriend. I would think that she'd know that by the time she asked me out!

  • katy
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    some girls say this as a polite way of saying they dont want to go out with you, they arent interested and the easiest way not to hurt your feelings is to say they have a boyfriend, because they can let you think that if they didnt have a boyfriend they would have been interested. it doesnt really work if you know they dont have a boyfriend though. are you sure they are lying? keep trying one day a girl will want to go out with you you just have to find the right one.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dont ask a girl out, ask if she has a bf. Then ask if she is ready for a bf yet. I am guessing you are young and lots of girls do not want to get messed up by having boyfriends too early.

  • 1 decade ago

    mayb your in the wrong area if every girl u ask out is is taken... maybe they like u maybe they dont just keep workin on it, u kno its only a matter of time till u find the right one so keep ur head up and move on to the next one because its a big ocean and u kno u want that perfect fish so just keep on swimming

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  • 5 years ago

    have you ever watched birds in spring? the female birds act like infant birds to get the adult males to feed them. the conception in the back of that's to verify how good a service the male will be to her offspring. an identical is going for women human beings. they prefer to verify in case you're generous adequate to care good for his or her offspring. all of it comes all the way down to searching for a worth human being to merge their DNA with. women human beings do not conciously imagine of this, yet our society is geared in the route of adult adult males giving women human beings presents to "teach" their devotion. i imagine lots of that's what has developed now that brides are literally no longer offered from their households, a minimum of in mainstream society. All that stated, there are some women those who're basically undeniable grasping. i wish it really is the case on your situation. in certain circumstances women basically desire a guy to hearken to them and validate their concepts and critiques or perhaps as this isn't done, they assume fabric issues quite. purely you may verify it really is which. by the way, good success.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe they actually do have a boyfriend, or they like someone else.

    It doesn't mean you're not wanted, you're just not wanted as a boyfriend by those girls.

    Just wait it out and you will find someone who truly likes you.

  • 1 decade ago

    They are probably trying not to hurt your feelings,maybe they feel you aren't their type. I am sure you understand that because there are girls you wouldn't ask out because they are not your type. Maybe you should try looking at all types of girls, not just one.

  • KS
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    maybe they do have a bf. or it is just a way of letting you down easy. it is easier on both of you. easier on her because if there is actually a bf then she has no choice but to say no to you. and it is easier on you so that you don't take it personally.

    Source(s): my guess
  • 1 decade ago

    It's either a huge coincidence, or you're just getting rejected.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you are asking the wrong girls who are not interested in you.

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