Why is it that I seem to attrack "big" girls?

Maybe being nice draws these ladies. When you flirt you show not only possible interest but acceptance.

You've made them feel welcome in your company. You sound like a nice guy. Why wouldn't a woman want to be with a nice guy?

I would just be yourself. Be friendly be nice and if they show interest just tell them you're not looking for a relationship.

Be their friend if you're not interested. Everyone can use friends.

Its exactly that...you flirt with them. They don't understand that you flirt with everyone. Women like to feel special...so when you flirt...they become interested. Especially the bigger ones because they don't get flirted with as much...

With the thin ones, there is more competition, and they know that everybody who flirts with them wants them to some extent. So, therefore the thinner ones don't hang onto you like the bigger ones. They know they can probably do better than you...no offence to you, but girls are always looking for the best they can get...not if they can get something.

Just try meeting some people online, and look at the pictures and weights, that way that the guesswork is taken out of the picture. If she was lying, leave. She can't get mad...she's the one who lied.

Some girls aren't used to being flirted with - bigger girls especially. Thinner, "better looking" girls are used to being flirted with and it's fairly normal for them. They know that it usually means nothing. Larger girls, on the other hand, aren't used to having a guy showing significant kindness towards them, and certainly not flirting. These girls are attracted to you because they think that you're attracted to them in the first place! It may be that you're flirty naturally, but I would try something else if you want them to leave you alone!

They're probably just appreciative that you flirt with everyone, them included. As bigger girls, they probably get less attention, so whatever you give them makes them attracted to you, and they might feel that, as your friend, they almost have a chance.

Don't change how you are, though. Maybe tone down the flirting around anyone you're not physically attracted to, but don't start being meaner just to get rid of them, it'll only backfire.

Are you a skinny dude? Most skinny dudes attract bigger women...not sure why...I guess the same reason they drive really small cars.

Flirting is why they want to be around you. You give them the idea that you are attracted, so they are reacting to that. If you don't want them, then don't lead them on. CJ

Walk around with a tazer and zap them whenever one says 'Give me a chance' like you would smack a dog with a newspaper or something.

I dont know its weird certain ppl atract certain ppl, for instance, i never attract latin guys always the white guys..its okay tho

maybe its BECAUSE your such a big flirt they come to you.

"big" girls dont get the most attention in the world

so any guy that gives them attention, they cling too.

if youre seen around with them, people will start to think thats what you like