helpp !FAMILLYY DRAMAAA!?

The most important thing for you to do is make sure you dont end up like them!

Your sister has to make up her own mind, with your parents help. In my opinion, a 13 yr old is not mature enough to be a mother, and abortion may be the best choice for her. Adoption is another good choice, if your sister feels that she could carry the baby for 9 months and then give it to loving parents capable of raising it. if she has any doubts about whether she would change her mind once the baby is born, my feelings are that abortion may be best. However, this is a very personal decision.

As far as your brother goes, he needs to step up, and be a man. if he was man enough to get these girls pregnant, he needs to take care of things.

ok castrated means the removal of the testies not some thing that is done in humans.

ok i think the best thing you can do is to be there for your sister she will be going through a lot every one is going to be telling her what she should or should not be doing the thing every one needs to remember is that it needs to be her decision as what ever she decides to do will have life long consequences.

the best thing you can do is support her regardless as her sister and a friend. she is going to need alot of help and a good shoulder to lean on.

think about how you might feel if you were in her shoes and every one was telling you what you should be doing.

as for your brother well the best thing you can do is just be their again for the girls whom he has got prego's

this is some thing he has chosen to do and as much as you may not like his choice it is his to make not ours.

how old is your brother...

I think you should have a talk with your brother about the whole getting TWO girls pregnant, and from how it sounds, at the same time! He really needs to man up and take responsibility for what he's done. He's practically ruined these girls lives.

Your sister need to also take responsibility for her actions and accept the fact that she got herself pregnant and needs to have that baby. She wasn't careful so she has to live with it, for 9 months. She can give it up for adoption so some couple who can't have children can adopt it.

I'll be praying for you. Hope all goes well.

That IS a lot of family drama. It would be very upsetting to live around if they are talking about it. Are your parents involved in this?

If they need someone to talk to and you want to be supportive, the biggest help is to just listen. They do need an adult to help them so make sure you put that in there somewhere.

You do not have to have any answers for them though and do not have to get caught up in it. You can remove yourself from these discussions if it becomes overwhelming, and even talk to a school counselor to help you deal with it. I wish you serenity sweetie.

I think that your brother should face his responsibilities, and I also think that your sister is to young to even have sex! much less be a mom. And castrated means, when you cut off a mans penis.

umm its no longer that complicated pass out with him if the lady messes with u approximately then tell her off if that doesnt artwork punch her in the face =) *Oh and she or he truly isnt a chum if u dont evaluate her a chum...its called a acquantence(whether u spell it...)

i think you bother should be castrated and your sister should take responsibility for her actions and raise her child

There is nothing you can do. They are the ones that screwed up. Good luck*