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Can girl who slept around be a woman of virtue NOW?

My friend use to sleep with every guy she met now she's married and keeps her head covered and she's referred to as a woman of virtue is this true in the eyes of Ali. She became a muslim, I thought they were virgins and didn't believe in premarital sex?

Update:

I'm really wondering what would her masque sisters and brothers think if they knew who she really was?

Update 2:

This is for her not for me I could give a crap what anybody thinks of me....

Update 3:

IF ONLY SOMEONE WOULD ANSWER THE DARN QUESTION.. MY FRIEND IS AT MY HOUSE RIGHT NOW BUT SHE CAN'T HAVE AN ACCOUNT HELLLO MAYBE WE WORDED IT WRONG. SHE WANTS TO KNOW HOW THE MUSLIMS WOULD REACT IF THEY FOUND OUT THE TRUTH!!!

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    Pre-Marital sex is forbidden in Islam, But as you've stated she wasn't Muslim at the time of her actions.

    In Islam once you convert to Islam all your previous sins are forgiven and they are turned into good deeds.

    Once converted your as if you were Just Born. So if she doesn't do what she did before she would be considered virtuous in the eyes of God (Technically speaking from what your telling me).

    Now you refer to the 'eyes of Ali' as if he is comparable to the common Christian deity, Jesus. Muslims don't worship Ali nor do any sects of Islam worship Ali. Shiites come close to it but they do Not. Hope I answered your Q.

    *~Salams. (Peace)

    Edits: "SHE WANTS TO KNOW HOW THE MUSLIMS WOULD REACT IF THEY FOUND OUT THE TRUTH!!!"

    Why would she want to tell them? Its in the past? Her sins have already been forgiven? Whats the point of telling people of what you USED to do, if you don't plan on doing it anymore. It would only create unnecessary problems and its quite illogical. You should rather keep it between yourself and God. And not make mention of it to anyone else really.. thats my Nasiha (advice)

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm not sure about the Muslim religion, but I do know that in Christianity, once a person has confessed that Jesus is Lord and has confessed and repented from his sins to the Lord and plans to turn from his old sinful ways, he is, in a spiritual sense, re-born or born again. He is now a new creation in Christ. Of course, one must do this wholeheartedly, with a truly repentful heart. Then all sins are gone into the sea of forgetfullness. God remembers them no more. So yes, a woman can be a virgin again spiritually in Gods eyes, just not physically. But she should plan to live in purity until marriage.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    ok here is my answer. the girl i like "we are friends on the 2nd" isn't virgin ,yet i like her. i'm virgin. in immediately's international, existence has develop into complicated and not each physique can stay with out important different and stand up to all the rigidity. It takes a great kind of endurance. i in my opinion, my wellness isn't that stable, by using fact I in no way had intercourse or having intercourse in any respect on the 2nd. i'm virgin. even inspite of the undeniable fact that, it develop into my option to triumph over the emotional problems i will have being virgin and working with my jealousy. i'm in my 20s'. i develop into blessed via outstanding skill to conform to hard circumstances and circmustances. I even have innovations to handle all the themes. I even have food plans and a great kind of issues. I even regulate my very own hormones point. end, i do no longer anticipate each physique to be like me. back on your question, all I care approximately is that the girl have not got any STD and to vow me to be dependable to me if she loves me. i do no longer understand approximately others adult males. The worst i'd desire to do is to pass away the girl if I capture her cheating on me.

  • 1 decade ago

    I believe you can become virtuous by asking God to forgive the way you lived your life. And turning away from it by true repentance. But none of us is perfect and we are to pray daily that we do not sin and if we do, then ask forgiveness. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved. That means that we believe that He died for OUR sins, and that His blood was given to cover those sins for us on the Cross. Without this grace, and faith to accept Him, we are but living for nothing.

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  • Zeera
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You don't think anybody can change, or just her? "Who she really is", you mean "who she really was". You don't sound like a friend, are you mad at her now because she's put aside her former behavior? You sound like someone who gives a lot of crap, as in, dishes it out.

    He is Allah.

    They attend a mosque.

  • 1 decade ago

    The past is the past. Who cares if she parades around as a person of virtue if she used to be a slut? Ali will see through her head scarf : )

  • al
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It is called redemption and Yes if the contrition is real and the behavior changes then she is a woman of virtue.

  • 1 decade ago

    I can only answer this from a christian point of view. I know that if she repents and asks God for His forgiveness He forgives and forgets. This will make her a voman of virtue. It is only people that remember and do not forgive and foget.

  • 1 decade ago

    Who gives a toss about any nonsense religion - its about humans. Rule bound morality is anti love - anti human

    She had problems when she was young. She has now discovered for herself.

  • 1 decade ago

    You sound like you're just wanting to cause trouble. People can change. It sounds like you believe she's changed for the better, so why dig up her past in front of others? That's vindictive gossip of the worst sort.

    It's far more important who we are over who we were.

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