FREAKING MYSPACE STALKER!! PREGNANT AND STRESSED?

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Ok so for a while already these 2 wives here at the base we are stationed at hvae been literally stalking me IT'S ANNOYING! They keep finding way to contact me they are spreading insane rumors about my husband cheating on me and me cheating on him (THIS IS TAKEN SERIOUS IN THE MILITARY) like this could get him in trouble... i can't go anywhere cuase for some strange *** reason they are there as well i can't go to a BBQ with my husband cause the next day they'll feel the need to message me and say that i am Self centered and im a *****?? I don't even talk to them much less write back to there stupid messages it's stupid... my husband can't buy me anything cause they find out and get like INSANELY mad and start talking a whole bunch of smack on how he's a show off and he is trying to buy me off and that we act better than everyone?? Not to long ago my anniversary came up and she literally posted all over Freaking myspace "I wanna congratulate *My name* On Her anniversary Not everyone overcomes an ABORTION Oops i Mean a Miscarriage" like seriously making fun of my miscarriage when her herself is pregnant like seriously? Then i can't post any wedding pictures on my own damn page cause they start freaking posting on there page "POST ALL THE PICTURES YOU WANT EVERYONE KNOWS YOUR NOT HAPPY" what the f***??!!! I CAN'T DO ANYTHING!!! im so annoyed and just yesterday i found out they made a fake myspace with a picture of me that is clearly a picture somene took without me knowing and is zoomed in from a distance on just my face!!! stalker?? Im 6 1/2 mths. pregnant and i can't take this annoyance and stress cause it's literally just making me feel like my blood pressure is through the damn roof!! i've already writeen police reports cause what i mentioned is not even close to half of what they've done... What should i do?? Is this Not against the law??? OMG! i'd understand if i was writing back and doing the same but i don't even write anything about them i don't talk to them i don't talk to anyone of there friends.. Oh yea! and for some damn reason they got insanely Mad because sometimes my husband gets cute and will tell his friends at a BBQ or somewhere "look at how Beautiful my wife looks she's 6 1/2 mths. pregnant and doesn't even look it im so proud of her and how beautiful she looks" and they got soooo Mad and started saying i was as big as a house!! Im sorry but not to sound mean but im only 119 ounds right now i was 104 when i got pregnant and the 2 women who have been talking crap are 200 pound chicks! Im sorry but this is pure jealousy and it's annoying! i could careless about the smack talking but the FAKE PROFILE is a little over the top and im tired of there Crap... what should i do?????

Update:

and no me and my husband have not cheated on each other.. we're together all the time pretty much 24/ 7 it's literally impossible for one of us to cheat.. so i know it's not because they know something i don't.. ever since i've moved here they hated me and said i was concieted it's horrible

Fergmeister · Accepted Answer

1.) Delete your myspace.
2.) File a harassment charge with the MP's.
3.) Record everythign that happens (write it down with time, place, what happened)
4.) Go to the Chaplian.
5.) This crap happens all the time on a military base. The military is like high school sometimes.
6.) There are two sides to every story, not saying that you have done anything wrong.
7.) Be the bigger person.

Emma is here!!!!! 11/14/08 · Answer

Ma'am I would definitely keep all the proof you can. The police do take this seriously, especially after that young girl commited suicide from getting harassed on myspace. I know its hard but you need to try and ignore it in the meantime and live your life. You cant put this much stress on the baby right now, its not good. 

Good luck

gillian B · Answer

Call the police, this is harrassment, by the way, they are so jealous its untrue acting like a pair of 14 year old b88tchy girls, I bet its because your husband is a total dreamboat and you have an openly happy marriage, easier said than done, but just ignore them and post what you like on facebook, if it makes you happy and your real firnds get to share your lovely wedding photos then what do you give about these two hags!! I havethis picture of those two auntys in the simpsons :))
good luck with yor pregnancy :)

Wendy · Answer

Honey yes this is against the law, you need to gather proof of EVERYTHING file a report then get restraining orders against them, therefore they cannot contact you in anyway as for your myspace cancel it and start a new one under a different name so they cannot search for you and only add your friends and family or make it private.. I cannot understand why two grown adults would act this way, but there are two sides to every story (no offence to you) Good luck with the baby and everything else..

baby #2 due 2/20/09 · Answer

there are a few things you can do, 1st being that you make your myspace page private. 2 nd report them to myspace for making a fake myspace of you with pictures and things that you didn't allow.  once you show enough evidence that it is you requesting the fake myspace of yourself to be removed myspace will remove it. 3rd if you are friends with the  wife of someone higher up like a master chief bring this up to her in conversation and ask what she would do, in most instances the wife speaks to her husband about it and something will get done, without you looking like a snitch, cuz after all you just mentioned it to a friend how were you to know she would bring it up with her husband.

Proud mom of 3 · Answer

If they are keeping posting things on myspace. you can report them on myspace. You click on the picture of tom. And they can do something about it. You can set your myspace profile on private. And they can't see it unless they are on your friend list which they are not. You could delete your profile on myspace. Make a new one with a different name and set to private. ANd keep the other one also.  I think the police should be taking action. Could get a lawyer also about it.

I&#39;d rather be at the beach · Answer

These are nasty women, I'm sorry you're going through this.  

Live your life regardless of what they're going to say and do.  By all means, by things for your husband, go to BBQ's, post wedding pictures, LIVE YOUR LIFE.  Block them on myspace, keep your profile private, and do your best to ignore them.  Be kind and polite to them when you have to, but otherwise ignore them.

brian · Answer

Move off of base. Go live in a rental house near the base... Get away from those women. It's not good for you or the baby to feel stress all the time.

Grants a tractor luvr! · Answer

Make your page private....problem solved, then they can't steal your pictures, block them if you want to keep your page public, this way they can't contact you through myspace....

The only other thing I can say is that you have to be better than them....don't stoop to their level.

Sorry I have to ask....Are you sure your husband isn't cheating on you?  Maybe they know something you don't.

jamie b · Answer

you said you are military. this needs to be addressed with the superior officers. talkt eh copies of the myspace issues and take them to the BC. 
they wont take this crap.
make yor space private for gods sakes. why do they have your phone number?
perhaps you and your husband need to spend some quality time at home relaxing and getting ready for this baby instead of being around all this drama.

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