how do i show my support and what is a good song?

Well, in situations like this, conversation can be awkward.

When my mom passed away, I had a good friend that would spend time with me. My mother and I were close. She (my friend) would show concern and say things that were comforting. But the one thing that was best, was the simple fact she was there. Some times, she would bring me some " comfort food ", but just spend time with me, and let me vent.

It's good that you are concerned about your friend, in wanting to know what to say, or how to be supportive. The most important part of all that, is just being there.

best wishes.

Just be there with your friend. It may not be the right time for music. Your being there says it all. Just listen, and see what you can do to help.How about you make a nice soup,and be available to just listen to your friend?

Maybe try making her family's dinners for a couple nights. So your support through little things.

Just keep her company. There isn't much you can say.

I prefer the song If I Could by Jack Johnson.

Sometimes, just being there means more than having hundreds of words to say.