Trying to forget. How can I forget my ex. It's getting out of hand and we still communicate for no reason. ?

three important rules for breaking up

don't put off breaking up when you know you want to

prolonging the situation only makes it worse

tell her honestly simply kindly but firmly

don't make a big production

don't make up an elaborate story

this will help you avoid a big tear-jerking scene

if you want to date other people, say so

be prepared for the girl to feel hurt and rejected

even if you've gone together for only a short time

and haven't been too serious

there's still a feeling of rejection when somebody says

he prefers the company of others to your exclusive company

but if you're honest and direct

and avoid making a flowery emotional speech

when you break the news

the girl will respect you for your frankness

and honestly, she'll appreciate the kind straight-forward manner

in which you told her your decision

unless she's a real jerk or a cry-baby you'll remain friends

Why did the two of you break up in the first place? If you get back together, will those circumstances/problems happen again?

If you didn't break up for any real reason and the two of you think it is a good idea then you might as well get back together.

The reason she is on your mind is because you are imagining the good relationship that you think you two could have. That can be a very powerful and haunting image.

One final thing....after having gotten to the point where I am in life I can assure you that "oh, well" is much easier to live with than "what if". In short--go for it and get back together.

If you both are talking to each other for more than an hour in the middle of the night, that definitely means that you both still have some soft corner for each other and miss each other.

Sit down with a pen and paper and write down why you both had the break up in the first place and then write down what you still like about her.

If the +'ves add up, chin up and give it another shot.

Break off ALL contact. If you have to change your number or email address so she can't get a hold of you, then do it or just ignore her calls until she gets the message. The worst thing you can do with an ex is keep communication open, it just makes it that much harder to move on and its not fair to either one of you.

You still harbor strong feeling for each other. Relationships do end, but the feelings do not. You may want to see each other to resolve those feelings, revive them, or seek ultimate closure. 12 years after my divorce, I realized that I still loved my ex and now we share a very tender friendship!~~it is better than when we were married. I see her 2-3 times a month and we always look forward to it. It still involves a lot of healing but is a true blessing.

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Either get back together or cut her off for good. Problem solved

Do what seems right, but remember why you broke up to begin with. There's no point dating her again if it has zero hope of working out

I was the same position. Well, what i would do, when she calls you, tell her that you miss her, and tell her how you are feeling, and than hopefully she will tell you how she is feeling. To try to forget her, just try to think of her as a friend, and put the past behind you. When that happened to me, i met someone who made me forget my ex, maybe that will happen to you. Hope I helped. =)

If you and your ex both still have feelings for each other try it again and if not stop talking. It is the only way to get over her!

If you want her out, get her out of your life completely. Don't take her phone calls, emails, texts. She may be trying to keep you on a back burner in case she decides whether or not she wants you back.