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Am I am idiot? I just divorced a CANCER.....and now I"m in love with ANOTHER CANCER?

My ex husband was a cancer, and as the charts say, we were cut out to be great friends and that is it. I fell in love immediately with my current boyfriend (who is TRULY a cancer sign in every way, shape & form)......I love how he showers me with affection and romantic love, something my ex was NEVER able to do.

After reading about our zodiac signs and their compatability, I am concerned about my current boyfriend and I - and how could 2 Cancer signs be COMPLETE oposites? My ex displays NO characteristics of being a cancer.....yet just as the charts say, we were strictly capable of being friends and thats it. Now that Im realizing my current boyfriend is 100% Cancerian, are we not a good match either??? :(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No your not an Idiot, Im not suprised that you like another Cancer..

    I love being around Cancers, and people are usually really attracted to them..

    Cancers are very difficult people to understand, they are very moody..

    And there are very few people that will put up with them, but they can be the greatest people to know if you can understand them..

    Source(s): Im a Leo, and i go out with a Cancer :)
  • Miss 6
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    There is this little thing called the rest of a persons chart. Like their rising & moon signs not to mention the positions and houses and other influences that make up a persons personality, its not all about the sun signs.

    I am a Cancer woman and I have dated 3 Cancer men in my life. Two of them have the same birthday (not year) they don't remind me of each other at all. The only thing I can say that was similar about them was that they were both smart and at times needed to wear glasses other than that not the same. No you're not an idiot for dating another Cancer men, but if you're going to follow astrology at least take the complete chart into consideration and don't just go off you sun signs to determine how compatible you are with someone else.

    There are plenty of free websites that you can plug your information into to get a compatibility chart done.

    Best of luck to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    i love cancers too.

    i dont get along very well with female ones though.

    but like everyone else has said it also depends on their moon,venus and mars signs.

    just put each one into the google bar and pick the first one.

    also try not to believe too much into astrology.

    it could ruin great things with people just because of their sign.

    i used to go out with a cancer and now im attracted to another one.

    and just because things didnt end brill with the ex it hasnt stopped me getting involved with the new one.

    their moon signs, etc. are totally different.

    anyway good luck

    :)

    Source(s): Sun: aries Moon: Pisces Rising: Scorpio Mars: Cancer Venus: Aries !!!:)
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Predicting on sun-signs is totally wrong.

    There are 1200000000 people in India.

    So 100000000 are in one zodiac.

    So there are 50000000 women in one zodiac in India only.

    Any fool will think that all 50 million indian women or man of a zodiac will be same together.

    Zodiac gives a very broad personality traits.

    Vedic astrology calculate on time/place/date of birth & more deeply so may be right

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You are basing your entire relationship with someone solely on their sun and moon sign so what do you think.You have bigger problems than their sun signs if this is how you live your life.Don't forget every cancer has 100% the exact same personality, same with all the other signs. There is only 1 personality per sign.Sound crazy? Well its pretty much what you are saying.

  • 1 decade ago

    As long as u didn't fall in luv wit'em b/c he reminds u of ur X or b/c u miss ur X, then y would u be an idiot? I honestly don't believe in that astrology B.S., so I won't even go there. All I gotta say is listen 2 or follow ur heart & keep ya eyes open, cuz luv is blind, it'll take over ur mind what you think is love is truly not you need to elevate & find.

    Source(s): EVE aka Pit Bull in a skirt
  • 1 decade ago

    the same thing happend to me, my ex boyfriend was a cancer he was very sweet and a really nice guy but just so sensitive and emotional to the point that i coulnt stand it, looking at his whole chart, i found out that he was a double cancer, meaning - cancer sun / cancer moon....i called it quits cuz he just wasnt for me. ( not because of his sign, i just dont like overly sensitive guys )

    my current boyfriend is also a cancer, he is like my soulmate, he has all the quailities of my ex plus he knows how to be assertive and stand up for himself. he doesnt let his emotions get the best of him like my ex did. and i really like that.... he is a cancer sun/ scorpio moon

    so the point is..... it all depends on the aspects of the guy's chart

    Source(s): im a scorpio sun / pisces moon
  • 1 decade ago

    cancer, being their sun sign is only an 11th of their chart. buy a purple book called the only astrology book you'll ever need. do actual charts if you are going to lend any credence to astrology. otherwise trust yourself. get to know him well enough to see if you are compatible. In any case you are not crazy.

  • 1 decade ago

    There's more to Astrology than a Sun Sign. You have to find out their Moon Sign, Ascendant, etc. to see what makes their personalities different.

    As for the first question "Am I am idiot?" ..... You answered it yourself.

    aaa haaa haaa, I'm sorry.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, the easy answer is that astrology is meaningless.

    The other answer is a matter of nature versus nurture. Your astrological sign would be the nature portion, while your upbringing would be the nuture portion. People vary.

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