What do you think?? (relationships)?

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My boyfriend of two years and 8 months and I just broke up a week ago... I'm only 15 and I felt so young to be tied down in something like that. Not to mention we never went anywhere together (we hadn't gone on a date in about 8 months) and it wasn't only because we didn't have any time. I felt like we were more like friends and I had growing feelings for a good guy friend of mine. (not intentionally).
The break up was more of my initiation but he understood, but still doesn't wanna be friends right now.
So this guy that I like right now and have liked for awhile is awesome. He's super attractive, really funny and fun, and religious. Plus, he likes me. He lives down the street from me and we're in varsity choir together so we'll be going to spring trip and All state together.
It's his birthday soon so I'm taking him to the Trans Siberian Orchestra! He's been wanting to see them for awhile and it's on his birthday. Plus, I had an extra ticket.! 
It'll be a lot of fun. I can't wait. I guess you could call it our first "date" except my family is there.
I know he likes me and wants to date me but he likes a few other girls too and it's soon after we broke up.
What should I do?
Sorry so long and thanks for reading :)

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wow we have like exactly the same problem

just do what you think is right give each other space
maybe you two need to grow up a little before you fully commit in a relationship

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renner · Answer

i think you should just follow your heart and see what happens. you are obviously at the start of a new page, with a new crush and a new chance to make it right. don't repeat the same mistakes as the last time. have some patience, but let him know that you're at least interested in him before it's too late. since you said the last time the "over-commitment" was a problem, this time try to have more fun and be more involved with him, that way you will get to know him better and will have a more interesting relationship. have fun at the orchestra! best of luck.

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We Walk Aløne · Answer

Well if he likes other girls, then you should compete. Do you think that he'll go for you if you don't make your self as friendly or available as the other girls? Of course not! You need to keep doing things like taking him to the Trans Siberian Orchestra (something that sound great for classical music lovers - I know because I'm jealous).

=] · Answer

dont get attached go with the flow.. like some other guys have options open in case things go back with you two

troble # one? · Answer

yo man do not say thats to long cas a your face is probly longer

Jeffy · Answer

You need to get over your commitmentphobia before you become a grown up that's for sure.

Anonymous · Answer

If you like him go for it!

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