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How can I warm my personality?
I've realized I can be emotionally cold and distant. I'm sometimes too serious and grown-up (I've always been an old soul). I'm an introvert unless I need to get a point across and I'm extroverted and passionate. Sometimes, I struggle expressing how I feel when I don't know what to say, unless I really know the subject. I can be argumentative and critical. I will admit I have been a bit depressed and a loner. I want to change this because I don't see much positivity with these traits. I like to read, serve people and research. Basically, I can be boring.
How can I warm my personality?
P.S. I'm an older student in college and I can't say I've had the "time in my life" like people say I should have here in college.
P.S.S. I'm also a Virgo. Not sure if that helps any.
I think I have either a pisces or aquarius moon (I keep getting both) and a capricorn ascendant. Keep in mind this was all analyzed via computer (the free services, of course).
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
sweetie...look at how you have made a declaration to the universe...you so believe this it has become your truth...how sad
stop being cold and distant...smile more...learn a few jokes...try to listen to how others do small talk...you know talk about positive or light things...maybe do some things to broaden your interests...read a few magazines...watch some TV like Mad Men, Pushing Up Daisies, Medium, a reality show ....
Most important, take the bull by the horns and do things to stop being this way...join a club...get involved...It is totally up to you, you are accountable and in control...and open up to positive affirmations to get yourself in a good mindset...join a charity where you meet others doing SERVICE together...offer to go to movies, even if they are not always your thing...cut back on criticism and when you do, be gentle and do it with open declaration you care and want ot help...do not elicit health tips unless anyone asks (big turnoff)...be a part of this world...ask someone in class to come window shop just to look at stuff...
as a Virgo who had this problem and complaint ...when i was in high school...i fought it...remember balance, being a smart person with a degree equals a job, and n\if they push you to something totally not cool just smile and say no thanks...and ease up on trying to be perfect...who really is?
- 1 decade ago
What are your other placements like your moon, venus and rising?
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Well! you're very much like me if you have Aquarius moon. Aquarius moon is air moon and doesn't like to express its emotions. (not so comfortable with emotions from inside/outside). This can make you seem aloof and detached to others. Capricorn ascendant has a very serious attitude towards life. So at first impression, people might see you as a serious person, who is not so easy to approach. But these placement don't mean you're a cold person. Inside you're Virgo. Virgo sun people love to help others and they're very unselfish and kind.
You should try to talk with other people more and not be so shy! find ppl who are similar to you can work. And showing your emotions sometimes are okay! show your caring sensitive side to others! :)
- 1 decade ago
Instead of keeping things to your self, try to talk to others.
Be social, and if you dont know something, ask a question, sometimes friends are made just becuase of a question.
Its not bad being serious or grown up, it just shows you are mature, just try to lighten up a bit and try to have fun.
GO TO PARTIES, go on blind dates, go see movies, be adventurous.
