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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 1 decade ago

Can I please my husband while on bedrest?

I know I am not supposed to have sex nor have any orgasm while on bedrest. However, I really want to please my husband. He has not been pushy at all and he's a great guy but I want to pleasure him very badly. I dont want to ask doctor as it might sound weird. Did any of you experience this and if so, please let me know if there is something I can do to please him sexually. I really want to!

Update:

Well you see I can use my hands and mouth, but I dont know if I am allowed because it would get me aroused obviously even if I didn't orgasm. I have been trying to research it for 3 days now but can't find info on the subject. Can someone help?

Update 2:

Well you see I can use my hands and mouth, but I dont know if I am allowed because it would get me aroused obviously even if I didn't orgasm. I have been trying to research it for 3 days now but can't find info on the subject. Can someone help?

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  • 1 decade ago

    I don't have any specific info from a doctor, but it seems to me that just getting aroused won't hurt the baby. I would say at least using your hands would be just fine! Not sure about oral sex but as long as you're not stressing your body then it might be ok.

    I know it's awkward, but I would actually talk to your doctor about it just to be sure. The "terms and conditions" of bed rest can vary.

    You sound like a great wife with a great relationship with your hubby! Congrats on the baby!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Look I don't think that is a good idea right now. Your doctors put you on bed rest for a reason, do you really want to lose your baby just to be able to give your husband a blow?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Is it worth risking your pregnancy over? Is it worth pre term labor?

    He's a big boy...I'm sure ...100% positive ...that he's taking care of himself in that department.

    You have more important things to deal with right now...than his dingaling.

    He'll be just fine....

    Talk to him and thank him for being so understanding and tell him your going to take advantage of him like nobody's business after the baby...but for now...listen to your doctor and focus on what's important.

  • 1 decade ago

    well my advice is don't do anything you can't do oral because then the baby will get it. but if you are on bed rest and want sex, i don't recommend that because it may cause for an early birth.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    mmmm Maybe oral Sex, he sure will get pleasure out of that...! :D

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, can you still use your hands? ;)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    oral sex

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