why will some guys go down on me and my bf won't?

If you're keeping everything shaved and clean down there, then there should be no reason for him to refuse except lack of experience. In this case I would try to introduce some food into the bedroom routine(whipped cream, strawberries, melted chocolate, etc.) some of it will be a little messy and sticky but if eaten properly can be completely cleaned up, and it will be a new learning experience for the both of you. If he's still unwilling to go down on you then I would not be giving him any head until he understands that it works both ways. One thing that all guys love is a ********. Your big mistake is that you're giving him what he wants all of the time without him asking for it. Let him go without for a while and maybe he'll eventually realize that in order to "get" he has to "give."

We all have our sexual preferences and sometimes they can cause problems in our relationships. This is not something that your boyfriend prefers to do apparently. It doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you, that he finds you disgusting etc. Some men (and women) do not enjoy oral sex rather it is giving or receiving.

One of the mistakes that is made, is some of us try to talk our mate into doing it when they've made it quite clear, it is not their cup of tea. There is something he does not like regarding giving oral sex and though you may be down about that, pardon the pun, you will have to accept it if he refuses to try it more often.

The reason why trying to keep talking someone into doing it is not good, is because most likely, they will not do it right as well as be resentful, because they feel they are being forced too. Also, think of something sexual, a sexual act that you may find unacceptable and would not want to do. How would you feel if your boyfriend or spouse kept trying to make you do it? It would bother you.

Both partners should want to please each other, that is the ideal situation but we can not just sweep under the rug the fact that all of us have preferences and we all have at least a couple things we may be unwilling to do or participate in. He has already given it a try or two, so it is not like he has never done it and doesn't 'know what he is missing'. If this is a deal breaker for you, and I know it is for many women so you would not be alone, then you will have to make the ultimate decision. For some women, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm so it is a very serious matter but if he has tried and it simply doesn't like it, then this is what you will have to eventually come to terms with.

One more point. If he likes to receive it but does not reciprocate, then that seems rather unfair and that should help you form your decision.

Best of luck.

Reciprocate, try going down on him at the same time. Perhaps he doesn't like to do it because it makes him feel dirty. When he does it let him know and show him how much you love it. Scream, moan, grab his head and pull him in cloes, best of all, kiss him and lick him clean after he is done.

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do unto others as u would have them do unto you! its the golden rule babe.