I am 36years old and cant believe all women of my age that date want it all house car money etc I cant compete?

Unfortunately - most women at that age have played the field too. They may be selfish, shallow gold diggers or they may be a product of our society and marketing. Just turn it this way, you are expected to sexually active too early (15 - 16), you screw around with losers who and goof offs into their mid 20's, then if you are working class or lower middle class you usually get married, if not you are studying, graduate and establishing your career (middle to upper middle class professional. Your parents expectations are high and society expects you to achieve materialistically. These days success is measured not by what you do for others, or how you behave, but on what you drive, where you live and who you are seen out with.

This shallow world we live in has been created by advertising and marketing - so females and males are doing what they have been programmed for - to buy, spend and look good.

By her late 20's a woman's hormones may be racing I must have the kids, the husband, the home, the car, the address, the man, the holidays and it has to be now.

By her early mid 30's she is desperate to achieve her natural instincts for mate, nest and hatch a brood, but not just any brood the best looking and the best nest - no losers need apply.

It might be screwed up and it may seem unfair. If you aren't in this league, I would say keep looking. Placing ads won't do it. You don't sound like a pack animal to me.

Find your own space to find a mate, she is probably out there waiting for you.

Women are more educated and most know what they want, most have "Affluenza" and they don't know they have it. It is a natural instinct to want to be secure, that is all she really needs don't give up hope Good luck

Not all women are like this - all I ask is that a guy I date has a steady job, a nice personality, maybe their own house (but nothing fancy) or pad, and isn't mean or abusive in any way. Don't care about make of car, or going out all the time - that would be a bonus - in fact, I like to rent movies, fix dinner, and have a good time. Or if it is Sunday - stay home and watch either football or Nascar - but I've always been low maintenance.

By the time women are in their 30's they want to settle down. They want to make sure that their potential husband is financially secure because otherwise they (the women) might get stuck paying all the bills. I know that a lot of women don't expect their man to ave BMW cars and a three bedroom home, but they do expect them to be at least living by themselves and not with their parents. if you have a professional job that shoudl give a women enough information as to if you can help provide for her and take care of her and your unborn kids (if you two decide to have kids). Don't become sad. I'm sure there's someone out there that's right for you.

well............

I dont think most want you for the money but think about it

at the age of 36 ( and i recon you find women in your age category)

from 25+ most women

want a FAMILY

which means you have to be financially stable

im not talking about 3 cars and 2 huge houses which you cant really afford in the end

but the ability to live through

you know?

and the answer before me, its right , yet I think you sound like a man who wants REAL feelings and not a woman who's been walked over 30850384208 time's and doesnt believe in love

so dont settle for that!

but yeah go out and find someone

maybe to places you like and somebody with the same attitude will come along

What is beyond your definition of "fun?" You mean there is no need for some sort of long-lasting relationship? "Boys want to have fun," while real men should want a meaningful relationship and are willing to be ambitious enough and financially secure to attract and maintain women who are accustomed [first through their parents] to a high-life style. Unfortunately, that's the Western concept of social dating.

Good luck!

I know. I don't want a bmw, and I am satisfied with a man who supports himself and has his own life and his own self esteem. Keep doing what you are doing, and the right girl will come along. I believe this because if you are doing what you like, then you will connect with others who are doing what they like, and your paths will coincide.

it is sad but if they have waited so long they must be very particular in what they want. I was married at 19 and it did not work out but am now happily married to a man with nothing. we have our problems but love is what matters.

lol these woman are just looking for stability...most woman that age have been hurt many times for the sake of love so they prefer having someone rich so they can be misreable in comfort but dont' worry not all woman are like that...just hand in there you will find someone

Not all women want it all.Honestly if I could find someone who was the boy next door type but with an edge to him I wouldn't care if he rented a room over someones garage. Please don't give up...there are so many of us that want to be appreciated and loved. Keep looking I promise you she IS out there.

i got the last one that isnt like that

she has 3 kids and she said 2 me she doesent expect me to support her 3 kids.

shes 1 in a million