my boyfriends gone from posessive and jeslous to carefree and wanting to do alot apart. what do you think?

this happen to me!

i finally got tired of my gf, flirting and chatting with every guy she could! even a little flirting is not kool! do you want your man or that new guy?

so i just told her you can do what ever you want, and i will stop caring! and i took about a month and she came to me ask if everything was alright

she wanted me to go back to the way i was, cuz i showed her alot of attention and she wanted that

so i told her, you cant have both! stop flirting and i will show you all the attention you need

so for that month i did not say a thing about other guys and i did not show her alot of attention i did things without her

it's possible that he found someone else. maybe he'll break up with you soon. this will then make YOU become possessive and jealous until the reverse happens to him. It will go on and on in a silly cycle.

did you tell him that he was being posessive? because he mite just be "changing" to try make you happy :)

if not then hes probally just having a bad day... lol

honestly you should think he cheated....that is how mine changed we are over now cause he was afriad i would find out an get back at him that is where th possesion takes place...watch out cause if it gets to bad things will escalt i would ask him if he cheated but not straight up