broke a girls heart, got back together, now im going to break it again....?

You are behaving badly, my man. IMHO, your invitation to Amanda was self-serving during a time that you understood you were in a relationship with Jane. The message you are giving Jane is that she's adequate until something better comes along. When you break her heart again, leave her alone. Don't ask to still be her friend, because a real friend would not be doing what you are doing. It's behavior like this on the part of men that cause women to think that men are all pigs.

well.. if u and amanda wanted to be together since 7th grade, why didn't u then? if that was the love , and the only love, why neither of u left their partners to be together? that's strange, plus why amanda remebered about u just when she remained alone?

All i can advice u is to not tell Jane anything about Amanda, and don't break up with her. Let amanda live with u and u ll see what kind of person she is and so on, but don't cheat on Jane... and later if u see she is the way u thought she is u can tell jane that.. Don;t break up with jane, cause if u do and alter u realize that amanda is not who u thought she is and u ll want to get back with Jane.. that won't be possible anymore, so think good :)

Nick .. Nick ... NICK !!

Man, what are you thinking ?? "Suuuure Amanda, come on down" and to your surprise (NNNNNOT), she said yes !

See, guys like you, and horrible things like this, are why women say that we can't trust guys !

You are makin' life hard for all your fellow men out there. All the decent, true, GOOD men out there are left to pick up the wreckage behind what guys like YOU do! How's THAT make you feel?

I have a newsflash for you: You're not in 7th grade anymore. You're supposed to be a responsible ADULT, who doesn't play GAMES with women who "truly, unconditionally, irrevocabely" LOVE YOU.

Jane doesn't deserve you.

If you care about her AT ALL, you will call her up, tell her everything, and listen to the sound of her heart breaking ... again ... because of you. That's what a MAN would do. So, be a man, and take it like a man, and don't ever treat a woman like this again.

Grrrrrr

Yes, you're an a__hole for dissing Jane like this.

in this situation you have to be selfish. you cant be with jane just because she loves you. if you want to be with amanda then tell jane that you have had a change of heart. its going to be very had to do so but its the right thing to do. follow your heart

Ok, really, you need to let this poor girl go once and for all. And don't get back with her again.

You can keep from being more or an A_hole by just making a clean break with her and NOT getting back together with her ever again. let the poor girl move on!

well you are gonna kill Jane with this but one day she will get over it!

do what your heart tells you, yes you are stiil an Asz for what your doing to poor Jane but at the end is your life and the decision is pretty much taken already.

Just tell Jane that you dont love her.

NOT easy but necessary!!

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g-luck dude!

Sort of? Sir, you ARE an asshole. I hope "Jane" finds a man who will treat her properly and can get over her broken heart quickly without being scarred for life.

well my main man looks like your in a pickle. I don't think you really know what love means. Love is an emotion that you should have for that person forever, not until someone better comes along. You have to ask yourself who you really want to be with. Hopefully it works out for all 3 of you.

i agree you should just let her go dont let her sit there and fall more and more in love with you. but dont forget i dont think amanda will ever love you as much as jane does . but its all up to you so you choose.

good luck bud. =]

Nick..you need to watch your karma meter my friend. Learn how to treat people with real emotions