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Better to love but not be loved or better to have never loved?

To love someone is one thing …to be loved by someone is another thing …but to be loved by the 1 u love is EVERYTHING!!…

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    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    I've loved and lost, and in my opinion I'd rather to have not loved at all. The pain is just too much, I don't like to be whiney and emotional.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's better to have never loved, especially if no one will love you in return. But how are we supposed to know is the question.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm, I guess it depends how bad the break up is. Some people have terrible luck, then again I have seen people put more critical thought into their choice of big screen TV than into choosing a spouse.

  • 1 decade ago

    Better to have never loved. It would be awful to be in unrequited love, especially if you know that it will never happen and you'll just have to contend with watching them forever.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    better to have never loved then you don't feel the pain.

  • 1 decade ago

    umm i couldnt rlly understand wat chu was askin...but it sounds to meh that ur having love problems....if the person that u love doesnt love u bak why u still gunna chase them... let them go... i noe it mite be hard but juss act like u dnt care...if they rlly love u they'll chase you...but if their juss acting like its nutin n that their above you then juss start doin the sam act like you dnt wats going on... it may not seem like the rite thing but trust meh it will help u in the long run...it will either open his/her eyes n they'll *** after you or it will open ur oppurtunitys to a new love life or at least to find another fish in the sea

    Source(s): i got this all from my head.. im rlly experienced with this stuff and im studying to become a realationship therapist
  • 1 decade ago

    better - to never have loved...

  • 1 decade ago

    love yourself first.......and then you can be loved by others...

  • 1 decade ago

    yahhhhh...

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