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Getting my husband to be's name tattooed on me, what do you think?
Im thinking of getting my husband to be's name tattooed on me, once we are married but im having some doubts. i would just like some honest polite opinions please?
18 Answers
- MikaLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
I wouldn't, especially if you are having doubts. Tattoos are forever, marriages are not. What IF something were to happen and you get divorced...
I love my husband more than life itself, and I have no doubt we will be together until death, but I will never get his name tattooed on me. I do have one that represents him though, but no names.
Source(s): Tattoos are forever, but the majority of marriages are not. - tattooed goddessLv 61 decade ago
Names are a curse.
I got married and we both got our names tattooed on each other.
We are currently trying to work out our marriage one more time and if it doesn't work then we are getting a divorce.
Just remember that a tattoo won't fade much, but there is a possibility that your love will.
If you still go through with it, do what I did and have your cover up already designed.. just in case!
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Source(s): ♥ Tattoos are a metaphor of difference, personally I delight in using my body as a canvas ♥ - sand3419Lv 71 decade ago
I have been married for decades, and there is no way that I'd get my spouse's name tattooed on me!
Instead get an image that makes you think of him, but don't do his name, it is never a good idea. And there is a bit of a taboo about doing it. Kiss of death to a relationship, a curse. And really, why? You know his name, and you could put something beautiful to look at instead.
Think this over carefully.
- 1 decade ago
well, there's the obvious that i hate to point out, but everyone is thinking it: what if you get divorced? let's say you are entering into a good marriage and you love each other and stay together forever...yea! i still think that tattoos of names are tacky, especially boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife ones. we all know you're together, you don't have to tattoo it on yourself. don't be so territorial. do something more creative. have him help you design a tattoo or get one together on your honeymoon or anything but tattoo his name on you.
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- mimiLv 61 decade ago
if you are ever doubting any tattoo don't get it........no matter what it is! someone once told me trhat when you get an idea of a tattoo to wait almost a year and see then if you still want it, people change, if you have nay doubt then don't do it.
- BrittanyLv 71 decade ago
Honestly? I don't think it's that smart of a choice.
I know no one thinks their relationship will ever go wrong but it happens. No one goes into a marriage knowing they will get a divorce. Stuff happens. You never know what could happen and then you're left with his name on you.
Plus, why would you want to mark yourself with a man's name?
- 1 decade ago
I say...
It is your heart Francie.
Here is my situation for my tattoo I'm getting tomorrow...
I am getting an ambigram tattoo, where it's my initials (EJG), and when you flip it, there's a hidden message. My first love's (and still my true love's) initials, SIA. We dated for a long time, and kind of are on a break. and my best friend says I'm crazy...but she was my first true love, and she still is. and even if we dont end up back together, I dont mind having her initials hidden in mine. She was my first true love, and I'll always have a spot in my heart for her, and I know that. I don't have to answer to anyone about what my tattoo is and why I got it, except to myself, and my Lord. I am content with getting it, and don't mind having her initials hidden with mine for eternity.
Again, you need to answer to yourself, Francie. Would you mind having what you want to get on you for eternity? I know I wont mind...but you have to answer that one yourself.
Hope this helped you out.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I wouldn't do it and I have been married for five years. You never know what is going to happen. Instead you could get something that reminds you of him. That way if things don't work out you don't have his name branding you.
- 1 decade ago
i don't think you should do it in my opinion if i tattooed any ones name on myself it would be my kids because you never know what could happen there is always a small chance you two could get divorced so i wouldn't do it
- 1 decade ago
well it really depends on you. i think that maybe if you do get the tattoo something might happen and you might get a divorce or something like that. but why do you have to express your love over a PERMANENT picture on your body??