Spiritually speaking, would you care if your teenager was having a "cyber affair" with a 29 yr old?

stay away from him- he's a pervert

i wouldnt like it if you were my daughter

he's too old for you, thats it.

even if it is just txing or im'ing

he must be a loser if he's 30 and texting with a 17 yr old- so why would you wana even bother with him

move on your better than this.

My dear, your mother would love knowing that you are communicating with a man online 13 years your senior. (NOT). I am a mom of almost 17 year old girl, and if she was communicating with a 30 year old, especially with a cyber love affair going on (even though you say it is harmless)- I would not be happy. That man, if he respected you at all would not even talk about things sexual with you. You did say that you did not want to him to do it at least a dozen times. HE is not listening is he? It is not funny. You actually showed him your pictures? What are you thinking? Please do not do this. You may think it innocent enough, but if he truly respected you he would not be writing sexual innuendos to you. It must bother you a little, or you would not even think that your mom would not approve. I don't want you to be hurt. One day, even if you say you would never meet him, that does not mean that you wouldn't - why do I say that. Because you told him 12 times you did not want him to talk sexual to you, however, he is and you are still letting him.

Now for the question that I have been waiting to ask you. What do you think God thinks of your cyber love affair? Would He approve? That is what is even more important than what your mom would think, but yet you are worried about her.

Uhmm, I would stay away from him. It might seem like harmless fun, but if he is harassing you like this now it is only going to get worse. If I knew my daughter {if I had one} was chatting with a what 30 year old man, her internet would be gone for a week! Seriously this is messed up, stay away from this guy, and have some common sense. You should have never shown him your photo bucket page, do you know what kind of creeps are out in cyber space???

How many times have you heard the stories of child molesters and rapists who targets teenagers and kids on the internet? I'm certain you've heard a lot. You might think he's harmless but you are not 100% sure of that now are you? So if i was your mother i would be hurt, disappointed not to mention angry to think my daughter could be so naive.

I think you are overreacting. He is as serious as you will let him be.

If you actually decided to send him erotic photos, I doubt he'd turn them down, but it sounds like he likes chatting with you and maybe entertains only a small interest in hooking up with you... this would explain his flirting with you, but also his interest in chatting with your mom. So far, it sounds like everything has been fairly innocent.

Personally, I think differing ages are a minor thing (provided you're both adults). When I was younger, I dated a lot of women far older than myself. I always thought if I met that special woman and she happened to be a few years too old or too young that we wouldn't have a relationship to be kinda sad. Missing out on love because of a birthdate?

Also, I'd like to point out to the other commentators that 17 is within the legal age of consent in many states/countries, she hasn't "cybered" with him or done anything questionable. The girl seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and knows where to draw the line on the old geezers. I think some of you are entirely too paranoid.

Yeah, I'd care, a 30 year old hitting on a 17 year old says, "internet predator" to me, plus it's just sorta pathetic. I don't know that I would think it's deserving of punishment, but certainly I would like it to stop. Now, I don't know your mother, but I would bet that more likely than not she would find the concept somewhat upsetting at least.

Tell your mom. This guy has "creep" written all over his avatar. You may have problems with this guy later. Tell him "It's over!" If he starts stalking you a lot, then call the police.

From now on, let this be a lesson. Try spending more time with fleshy friends rather than cyber friends. There's no telling who is on the other end.

Darlin you know the answer to that one ...... i would be so not o.k. with it if it were my little angel that i'd put a brick through her puter in lightning speed ...... the man you are communicating with could be anybody anywhere and capable of doing anything ........ ditch your cyber account with him and start afresh ....... don't be a silly girl ... you know i care and you know how dangerous it is ........;0)

peace baby

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...please stop doing this. It's really dangerous and unhealthy. Your relationship with him will never get you anywhere, except maybe into serious trouble (with authorities, him, your mom, your own guilt).

You have your own life and you have a boyfriend. Don't mess with this guy. He seems dangerous to me.

No, I seriously doubt any parent would be okay with that.

It's possible he is only harmless. But it's also possible he is dangerous.

Just be careful.

Okay?