Why would he treat me so bad after saying he loves me and that I am his soulmate?

i know it hurts.but he's a douche and u should dump him.easier said than done. but its what's best.trust me.

First off, this guy is easily confused and also easily persuaded. He obviously was telling you exactly what you wanted to hear to get what he wanted and say he was going to split up with his wife to you in hopes that you would believe him. Once you believed all of his lies he was then able to have his cake and eat it too. The first time he took his wife away for the weekend. He was not over her yet. The next is when he says he is too busy for you but not his friends or family. This indeed means that you were just his fling during the hardships of his marriage. Divorce is a long process. If he told you that he agreed to split with his wife, then it would not be too much to ask for the separation or divorce papers. If you really love this guy and want to have a wonderful relationship without you worrying if he will cheat again, since he already is with his wife, then Honesty from him needs to be up front. If you can not get him to be honest with you, then why would you want to start your new relationship or life even with a bunch of lies?

I hope I answered your question well.

Think you have to consider that this bloke went with on the rebound from his last relationship and he probably dived in a bit to rapid, which to me would have made him unreliable. Best to put it down to experience and better to know now that later on and maybe him doing it in a worse way i.e having an affair, your always gonna come across a jerk like this so best move on and find someone who will compliment your feelings rather than complicate them. LUCK

It sounds to me that he wants the best of both worlds spending time with his wife and when he gets fed up with her he comes to you, my advice would look for someone else that will treat you better and possibly someone not married or just finished with his wife as there is always the chance he will go back to her.

men are like this they want what is there when it suits them some men compare their girlfriends with their wives if you don't meet up with their standards your thrown aside resume normal life then when it occurs again your back in the picture while ever you allow yourself to be there he will use this to his advantage and play on your heart-strings so sever them say it is me or the wife or your out of my life.

He's using u for sex, jump now.

sounds like he is stringing you along,