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Will GOD and I Ever forgive my x-wife for cheating on me after she kicked me out?

For saying to her dad that I hit her. I slightly tried to move her aside with 2 and only 2 fingers. and she resisted and I stopped...

if this is a hit on a woman, they would have to be made of dust...

For Cheating on me while we were seperated; with a soccer player she picked up at the bar

For stealing my children and every other thing I owned in the world

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    God does not forgive if there is no repent and confessing. and I think we should do the same. I never read in the Bible or heard a story in which God forgave anyone who didn't repent. Even after repenting, they should apologize for the person who hurt.

    Any hurt is directed to God and a person and apology should be made for both. How can I forgive someone who is still hurting me and never said sorry? if your ex show some regret, may be.

    Anyways you need not to think of it because it'll drive crazy. move on and trust that God will take care of it, if not on earth, in heaven.

  • 1 decade ago

    God has already forgiven her. Time will heal you. Just try and stay positive and be the bigger and better person when dealing with her. It is hard and often hurts, but when the dust settles you will be able to hold your head high and say you have no regrets. Pray for strength to handle these situations correctly and with dignity and respect.

  • bill b
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    She cheated AFTER you moved out? Yeah, you're still married, but I think that changes the rules a little.

    You sound angry, bitter, and childish. And... if you're religious, you should know it's not your place to question whether GOD will forgive her. That's just something you're using to make her seem more guilty.

    So... why'd she kick you out?

  • 1 decade ago

    how are you moving a person with 2 fingers? why?

    while you were separated she was not cheating, she was extending her horizons. you know, women want to feel desired and attractive too. not to mention we like sex no less than men. especially when its different and passionate comparing with the one she had for whatever time she was married. so, you can t say she was cheating, because technically she wasnt with you at that time. thats why it is separation!!!!

    as far as children ,,,well, when mother takes them, it is not stealing, kidnapping or any of that - this is parenting!!!! and what other things?

    doesnt sound you ve had much... woman dont separate from good and worthy men.

    so, you need to stop crying, and be a man. you want her back? better yourself first. you dont , so let it go. she doesnt need your forgiveness, neither does G-d needs to forgive her. there is nothing wrong that she did from what you wrote.....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First:

    All of us are evil and do evil things. Just because you sins may be more socially acceptable than hers does not mean that God stops loving her anymore than he stops loving you.

    Second:

    Forgiveness is more something that we do for us than for the other person. Bitterness will eat you up inside. Forgiveness enables you to take away the power of the other person to hurt you anymore.

  • 1 decade ago

    only if she comes back to u and ask for forgivness first,then she can ask God to forgive her, but not untill then

  • 1 decade ago

    god will forgive her.. hopefully you will too.. and it doesnt mean you have to love her or ever talk to her again.. but if you live with resentment you'll never be happy, forget about her, obviously she wasnt worth yr time and effort remember that as you move foward with your life.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, and you should forgive yourself too. You've held onto resentment for far too long. Allow yourself to live in peace. Life is too short. :)

    Source(s): Personal Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you should forgive & forget... be the better person. as for God? who knows. she sounds like a tramp... i feel sorry for whatever guy she ends up with. you deserve so much better x x

  • 1 decade ago

    of course god can forgive her, but you gotta be willing to forgive her too. we are only accountable for our actions. no one can make you forgive her, you have to decide to.

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