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How do you cope with a jealous person?

She constantly belittles me, the people I go out with, she does comparisons a lot, and talks bad about people who are thinner than her.

She is my friend.

Should I end the frienship?

By the way she is extremely rich.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Friends don't belittle you. Find someone else to be friends with.

  • 1 decade ago

    Let her know that she has two choices. Either she says nice things about you in front of you, no more comparisons and quit talking about others or your friendship is now in the past. You don't want or need negativity in your life and you refuse to live with it constantly.

    You know agent, this is your problem more than hers because you apparently left your self esteem at home in the closet. Only you will tolerate this behavior. Look within yourself and see why you are willing to let someone basically run over your feelings and you will find your answer. Friends are those that has your back....You, to her have a new name...Patsy....why? Because somewhere down the line you have become her Patsy....Your fault...Not hers....You allowed the behavior

  • 1 decade ago

    "Birds of a feather flock together." Since you feel uncomfortable, explain your feelings. If nothing works, you have a decision to make. Do you wish to listen to her negativity as it seeps into your soul and subtly affects your perspective or do you find a new friend? Also, "the love of money is the root of all evil." Let her keep her money and you keep your peace of mind.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Roflcopter

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well i have the same problems and i say just go to them and i went straight to her and said very nicely can you plese not copy me i can tell you are jelouse of me i don't mind but plese don't copy me any thing but that

  • Dylan
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    f*ck i feel your pain

    i dont know how i cope

    it's a real b*tch to deal with

    kinda gotta give them the "i dont care what you think so shut up and keep it to yourself!" kinda thing

    as mean as it sounds, it's a selfish thing to do (to be jealous)

  • 1 decade ago

    Just ignore her! Showing that it bothers you just feeds the fire!

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