Does she hate me and what can I do ?

she may well have feelings for you but it was a bit insensitive of you to write that letter to her when she had just lost her father. she may have thought that you were just using the situation to try and get into her knickers, i'm sure that you wasnt but that may be how she sees it. i think you need to be careful how you play this one because you could easily offend her. but try to be sensitive to her feelings and if she says that she doesn't want to talk to you, accept that and just lether know that when she is ready to talk you'll be there for her . xx

I think she is still depressed about her father's death and maybe she's angry as well. You know how when people lose someone close to them they are very angry at that person sometimes and keep asking themselves why it happened. So I think she is just taking out her anger on you because she knows how you feel about her and she thinks that you will tolerate anything she does to you no matter how horrible it is. I hope I'm clear on this.

Good luck!

she must be really sad about her father dying...u may remind her of her father with memories or something and that hurts her or when u told her about how u felt it was not the best time...just give her sometime and ten see if she will talk to u again but ask her family if u think it would b ok to talk to her whenever first

She is not stable and probably needs professional help.

Are you a professional? If not, don't waste your time. If she does not want you around then you must respect her feelings and abide by her wishes. You sound obsessed with her. Get professional help for yourself if you can't control your urges.

You know what 'they' say: You always want what you can't have.

you should try to talk to her again. everyday. if i was the girl that did that, and some guy tried to talk to me everyday, i would calm down and realize what they were doing when trying to talk to me.

hard to tell