D Bate A Bull

We went out before but she dumped me when she got stressed out over work she claimed but later admitted she gets scared when she likes someone and hides from relationships. Years later we are talking again and went out for a drink. She draws my upper arm close and tight and lays her head on my shoulder. I don't know what to do. I clearly think I still like her but not sure if that is just an act of friendship. What should I do ?

We went out before but she got stressed out over work she claimed but later admitted she gets scared when she likes someone and hides from relationships. Years later we are talking again and went out for a drink. She draws my upper arm close and tight and lays her head on my shoulder.

I don't know what to do... I carely think I still like her but not sure if that is just an act of friendship.

What should I do ?

We went out to a club and she puts her head on my shoulder?We went out to a club and half way through whilst standing at the side of the dance floor she wraps both her hands securely around the top of my arm as if grabbing me close and rests her head on my shoulder. Might be a silly question but maybe not but does she like me or not ?

We went out to a club and half way through whilst standing at the side of the dance floor she wraps both her hands securely around the top of my arm as if grabbing me close and rests her head on my shoulder. Might be a silly question but maybe not but does she like me or not ?

I was very close to her family and always looking out for them.

She flirted with me often but I just took it as light banter. Her father grew ill and passed away which She took pretty badly. The pain she felt I guess opened up my true feelings for her. I must of been in serious denial because I never knew until it hit me like a ton of bricks, she was in my thoughts constantly.Six months later I kept trying to hide it but Im not a good liar so I wrote telling her I cared about her and we were all worried for her being locked in her room. I visited the following week and she heard me arrive and came down and smiled at me. Eventually I wrote her and told her how I was feeling as I didnt know which way to turn. She seemed fine with me but we never discussed it but out of the blue she phoned we three weeks later sounding very upset and told me she had no feelings for me and not to comeback, that hurt because her mum was like a mother to me. Her sister told me she was crying a lot screaming down and cussing my name yet I do not understand what I had done. I stayed away and a year later I saw her whilst driving and tried to talk to her but she just didnt give me a chance to talk. I would always send her a birthday card so I let it pass but the following year I sent her a card and a letter saying I hope we could be friends again but if not I understand but heard nothing then 3 weeks later out of the blue the police knock my door and say she has been in absolute tears down the station and saying that I harassed her (our contact was twice in 3 years). I told her family and they went bolistic but not sure what they said to her but I decided to leave it. I still think of her often. ... I have idea what was going on with her and I am still totally confused. What do you think was going on and what should I do?

I was very close to her family and always looking out for them.

She flirted with me often but I just took it as light banter. Her father grew ill and passed away which She took pretty badly. The pain she felt I guess opened up my true feelings for her. I must of been in serious denial because I never knew until it hit me like a ton of bricks, she was in my thoughts constantly.Six months later I kept trying to hide it but Im not a good liar so I wrote telling her I cared about her and we were all worried for her being locked in her room. I visited the following week and she heard me arrive and came down and smiled at me. Eventually I wrote her and told her how I was feeling as I didnt know which way to turn. She seemed fine with me but we never discussed it but out of the blue she phoned we three weeks later sounding very upset and told me she had no feelings for me and not to comeback, that hurt because her mum was like a mother to me. Her sister told me she was crying a lot screaming down and cussing my name yet I do not understand what I had done. I stayed away and a year later I saw her whilst driving and tried to talk to her but she just didnt give me a chance to talk. I would always send her a birthday card so I let it pass but the following year I sent her a card and a letter saying I hope we could be friends again but if not I understand but heard nothing then 3 weeks later out of the blue the police knock my door and say she has been in absolute tears down the station and saying that I harassed her (our contact was twice in 3 years). I told her family and they went bolistic but not sure what they said to her but I decided to leave it. I still think of her often. ... I have idea what was going on with her and I am still totally confused. What do you think was going on and what should I do?

I have a friend, 36 years old, getting married in August and he has just found out that he has advanced stages of Pancreatic cancer and has one month to live? I don't know what to say to him?

What is the one thing/person/situation you would what right now if you could have it.

No rational, no reasoning, no logic .... emotional outbursts .... unreasonable mode swings

She has apparently screamed, cried and cussed my name when with her family. She refuses to talk to me and gets nasty to towards me when she sees me but I have done nothing but good towards her.

- I heard there was but I cannot find it -

Years ago we were very close friends but not intimate - I was also a family friend - i'm sure she fancied me because she flirted alot but I avoided it. Her father died years ago and soon afterwards I began to realise how strongly I felt for her (like no other woman and none since) - I told her in a letter but she never responded and she began to get more depressed about her father - she started being nasty to people and she told me never to come back. She will not talk to me - she gets really angry when she sees me and I was told by a family member she used to cry and scream my name out alot. She has been really rude to me when I've tried to talk to her over the years - What is this all about - Do you think she has feelings for me or hates me?

Years ago we were very close friends but not intimate - I was also a family friend - i'm sure she fancied me because she flirted alot but I avoided it. Her father died years ago and soon afterwards I began to realise how strongly I felt for her (like no other woman and none since) - I told her in a letter but she never responded and she began to get more depressed about her father - she started being nasty to people and she told me never to come back. She will not talk to me - she gets really angry when she sees me and I was told by a family member she used to cry and scream my name out alot. She has been really rude to me when I've tried to talk to her over the years - What is this all about - Do you think she has feelings for me or hates me?

Years ago we were very close friends but not intimate - I was also a family friend - i'm sure she fancied me because she flirted alot but I avoided it. Her father died years ago and soon afterwards I began to realise how strongly I felt for her (like no other woman and none since) - I told her in a letter but she never responded and she began to get more depressed about her father - she started being nasty to people and she told me never to come back. She will not talk to me - she gets really angry when she sees me and I was told by a family member she used to cry and scream my name out alot. She has been really rude to me when I've tried to talk to her over the years - What is this all about - Do you think she has feelings for me or hates me?

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