ok so I need serious advice about something really important so please no rude comments?

You were being truthful to her. She needs to accept it and move on. Would she rather you hide things from her? I commend you for being honest with her.

I guess you'll have to open up the topic again with her. Give her a few more details she'll want to know about, such as how long ago it was that you smoked, and for how long. Do you still pal around with the friends you smoked with? Why did it seem like a good idea to stop when you did? Why are you sure you won't pick up the habit again? If mj should ever become legal, would you smoke it then?

This might very well be a deal-breaker for her, but give her a chance to understand where you were coming from, and where you are now.

Basically the only way your girlfriend is gonna except is well um actually if you get a new girlfriend who smokes to or who has been around smoking and doesnt care.Now,If you like to smoke more than you like your girlfriend than,all I can say is you wont give up too much more for her,and love takes sacrafice.2.If you want to give up smoking for her, (which I think you already knew that,and are trying to avoid that solution) YOU CAN DO IT,im telling you,you have control over yourself and smoking is making you a slave of it.I know so many people who have done it and were heavily addicted,and dont think that you cant either Phillipians 4:13 I can do all thing through Christ who strengthens me. now just cuz i quoted scripture doesnt mean that i am a judgemental Christian..when christians are judgemental thats not being like christ thats being like the devil.(john 3:17 For God did not send his Son to Condemn the world but to SAVE IT)HELLO,anyways you can do it.And dont say how would I know,trust me I have been from hell and back if I can do it you can to.And if you like this girl enough you will and if you dont you should do it for yourself anyways,your worth it dont think your not.God does think your worth it too. And if you dont believe me I will give you more scripture for that too.I prayin for you

She's probably upset that you smoke weed. How long have you been going out?...and your just telling her now? Secrets are not the best foundation for a relationship. Apologise and ask for her help to stop. Come clean with her and tell her some things to make her trust you again.

Wow, that's tough. I'm sorry that this has happened to you.

Well, if you don't smoke anymore, you just need to come completely clean, tell her the truth, and regain her trust. By treating her like a princess, and doing all the "little" things that girls appreciate, (sort of like courting her all over again) I think things will get better.

Again, I hope things get better for you. Good Luck.

Shes probably just trying to absorb it. She may be in shock. I told my girlfriend something like that and after she slept on it we talked and she was mostly ok. Girls need time to think theres nothing you can do but wait it out and ask if theres anything you can do or if she has any questions and sincerely promise you won't do it again.

ok. girls are complicated. First off you probably should have kept the smoking thing a secret. Second. aploigize 2 her. tell her that you care about her and want to help fix whatever shes upset about. but, whatever u do DON'T keep pestering her about why shes acting weird. if she wants you to stop smoking, tell her you'll try. and DO TRY. you shouldn't lose your relationship besause of this.

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Okay well first-if she really loves u and is into u u should b okay. 2nd it honestly depends on the drug. u didnt say wat kind but if its jus weed then thats not a biggy drug. if its anything more than that...sorry man ur screwed...u should really try n stop if ur that into her. n not jus for her either but 4 u to....drugs go through stages n get worse so try to narrow it to jus ciggerettes so then ur not stoping it all together. then tell ur girl that ur doing it 4 her..try n make urself look good and ur doing the rite thing. n if ur an addict n it gets worse try not to involve her. it can really screw up lives. i think u should b okay with ur girl n all but tell her how u really feel n obviously she is hurt. so wat u can do with that part is to keep seeing her like normal act normal but dont act lyke nothings rong cuz in her eyes...there is something rong...try n talk through ur problems... a lot can come through in great ways...if u need anymore help advice wat ever feel free to email me at nyni18@yahoo.com il get back n try to help u through this awkward stage. hope eveything works out 4 u...

You can't take it back, so you have learned a lesson. A lot of bad habits and episodes that are over, are best ignored. In other words, "let sleeping dogs lie". All you can do is be a great guy and hope she forgets.

Well you should'nt have told her that because that as bad a saying your pregnant if you were a girl. But you should make a noticeable to her that your just being open with her and that you're willing to stop if she asks.